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20 Evidence-Based Social Skills Activities and Games for Kids
Oct 14 2020
Positive Action Staff
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Activities and games for socialization are a great way for your child to learn how to behave around their peers, no matter if he is a toddler, preschooler or if he just started kindergarten. Games can teach skills like taking turns, managing emotions, and reading body language.
Use these evidence-based social skills activities to help your child build their social behaviors and learn how their actions affect others. With these games, they can become more independent and maintain healthy relationships throughout their lives.
1. Staring Contest
Many children have trouble maintaining eye contact in conversation. A staring contest can help kids make and keep eye contact in a way that allows them to focus on that task, rather than trying to communicate simultaneously.
If your child still feels uncomfortable, you can start smaller. Place a sticker on your forehead for them to look at and then build toward having a conversation.
2. Roll the Ball
It’s never too early to start building social skills, and a game of roll the ball suits children as young as toddlers. Kids take turns rolling a ball back and forth between them, laying the foundation for other social skills.
Kids learn to carry this skill into taking turns in conversation or when doing joint activities. They also learn self-control by aiming the ball toward their friend and rolling it hard enough to reach them yet with limited force.
3. Virtual Playtime
Sometimes, your child can’t have play dates in person, but they can still spend time together over video chat and other online spaces. Video chats help kids make eye contact by looking at their friend on the screen.
Learning to adapt to new situations becomes a valuable trait, whether with social distancing or in their future workplace. Coming up with new ways to spend time together increases problem-solving abilities, which adds to a set of vital social skills.
4. Emotion Charades
Emotion charades involves writing different emotions on strips of paper. Your child picks one out of a hat or bucket. Then, they must try to act out that emotion.
Emotion charades can help children learn to recognize emotions using facial and body cues. You can even adapt social skills activities like this to create a game similar to Pictionary, where children draw the emotion.
By depicting and acting out emotional expressions and reactions in social skills activities, children learn emotion management, which plays an important role in creating positive relationships and communicating feelings.
5. Expression Mimicking Games
When you play this game with your child, you're teaching social skills with expressions. Mimicking your expressions allows your child to understand what certain expressions mean and recognize them when others make them in real conversations.
When kids with social challenges learn to read facial expressions, they become more comfortable in situations involving them.
6. Topic Game
You can play several variations of the topic game, but the most common one involves choosing a topic and naming things that fit into that category using each letter of the alphabet. For example, if you choose animals as the topic, you might come up with:
- A: Aardvark
- B: Baboon
- C: Chicken
The topic game teaches kids to stick to one subject and follow directions until they complete the activity. It also helps them make connections and get creative with letters that have fewer options.
7. Step Into Conversation
Step Into Conversation is a card game made for children with autism. The game presents structured social skills activities, like starting a conversation and talking about specific subjects based on cards.
The game helps kids learn how to talk to others appropriately and carry a conversation with perspective and empathy. It teaches good manners and self-control by showing them how to politely enter a conversation, when to talk, and when to listen.
By using socialization games like this one, you give structure to conversations to develop the social skills necessary to handle different situations in their daily life.
8. Improvisational Stories
Many children tell stories even outside of intentional social skills activities. With improvisational stories, you add another challenge that requires them to collaborate and create a narrative without thinking about it beforehand.
For this activity, place cards with pictures or words face down. The child picks three of these cards, and they must include these objects or topics in the story they tell. The game ends when all the cards are gone, or the kids reach the end of their story.
You can use this activity as a multiplayer game where children take turns adding to the story and building on each other’s ideas, or one child can tell you their own story.
9. Name Game
With this simple game, kids roll or toss a ball to someone after they call out their name. Social skills activities like this one work well for helping even toddlers learn their peers’ names. It shows that they are attentive to others, and it’s a step toward getting to know other people.
10. Simon Says
Simon Says builds social skills for kids' self-control, listening, and impulse control as they copy their peers' movements and follow instructions. It also helps keep the attention on the game and rewards good behavior for those who follow the rules throughout the game.
11. Rhythm Games
You can incorporate rhythm games as a social skills activity both at home and in the classroom. These music-making games let your child be creative while following directions and recognizing patterns.
A 2010 study by Kirschner and Tomasello shows that joint music-making helps social behavior. In a game where children must “wake the frogs” with music, the researchers found that kids who followed the rules by making music were more likely to help others who tried waking the frogs with non-musical means.
12. Playing with Characters
These social skills activities involve tapping into your child’s natural tendency to play. Using stuffed animals or dolls, you can interact with your child through the toys.
Having conversations through toys teaches kids to recognize behaviors and communicate their feelings. They practice their social skills through the toys in an imaginary, low-risk environment, without worrying about the toys’ hurt feelings.
13. Play Pretend
Kids will typically create a scenario in which they pretend to be someone or something else. For example, they might play house and take on the roles of parents, become a doctor, veterinarian, teacher, or cashier. Each of these situations allows them to explore different social skills activities.
As they pretend to parent another child, for instance, they must learn to recognize and respond to emotions, deescalate situations, and adapt to new situations.
14. Token Stack
You can adapt token stack from board games like checkers to create social skills activities that teach children how to have a considerate conversation. Every time the child speaks and responds appropriately, they add another token to their stack.
They face the challenge of trying to stack their tokens as high as possible while taking turns speaking. This activity makes them focus on having a calm conversation and giving thoughtful responses to questions and statements.
15. Decision-Making Games
Social skills activities like decision-making games come in many forms. By using strategy games or activities as simple as sorting and matching, your child learns persistence, thoughtfulness, and cooperation with others.
These games help kids with indecision, as they ask the child to make a choice, even if it’s not right the first time. It demonstrates low-risk consequences and encourages them to try again if they make a mistake.
16. Building Game
When children work together to build something, like a tower using blocks, they must communicate, take turns, and understand each other to bring their creation to life.
Kids will work together to come up with a method to build their item. When they apply it, they learn to try again if the creation falls and celebrate each other’s unique abilities when they finish the project successfully.
17. Community Gardening
Community gardening works differently than other social skills activities in that it teaches children to nurture a living thing.
Gardening with others increases social competence by having your child take care of something and learn responsibility, as they cannot neglect their plants. This activity also gets kids outdoor and can help calm them.
18. Team Sports
Children can participate in team sports through their school, on a recreational team, or even play with friends in their backyard. Team sports show kids how to work together toward a common goal and keep their focus on the game.
They also learn to recognize emotions, like when someone gets hurt or scores a goal, and react appropriately when they win or lose.
19. Productive Debate
A productive debate works well for older kids to learn how to manage emotions and work on positive expression, even in challenging situations. They learn how to have difficult conversations calmly, without turning them into an argument or trying to insult the other person.
People who can debate and listen to their opponent develop more of the skills needed to become leaders in the classroom and workplace.
20. Scavenger Hunts
During scavenger hunts, children work together to find objects or get a prize at the end of the activity. By working toward their goal, they learn teamwork, organization, and positive decision-making. They can choose to split up, move as a group, and collaborate to reach the end of the game.
They also get rewarded for cooperating. These activities help them with creative problem-solving abilities by making up clues for other players to solve.
What’s Next?
Using evidence-based social skills activities and games helps your child build social skills while doing something they enjoy. You can adapt any of these activities to something that engages your child and allows them to get creative with their socialization.
However, activities and games can only go so far. The Positive Action social skills curriculum is designed to work in tandem with activities like these and more to help your child identify their self-concept and shift this introspection to their social interactions. We feel social skills start within.
Explore our sample lessons for even more ways to encourage your child’s social-emotional learning, or contact us to find out how our program can improve your child’s social skills and have fun doing it today!
Try These 5 Great Social Skills Activities for Students & Groups
Working as a school psychologist in the public school system for many years, I sometimes heard school counselors asking for advice about which social skills activities they should do with their students
Children in the group often had difficulty with skills such as:
- listening
- waiting their turn in conversation
- staying on topic
- sharing materials
- understanding another person’s feelings
- getting along with others
- resolving conflict
- appropriately expressing their own feelings
This article gives five suggestions for social skills activities for students and groups.
You may think these activities are more appropriate for elementary-age students but I think they can really be adapted for younger and older groups.
Activities can also be modified for a one-on-one situation such as parent/child or counselor/student.
What the research says about social skills instruction: Phillip C. Kendall, Professor of Psychology, reported the positive effects of using modeling and role playing, and teaching self-evaluation when teaching social skills.
Further research, such as Social Skills Training for Teaching Replacement Behaviors: Remediating Acquisition Deficits in At-Risk Students, confirms the benefits of intense social skills instruction.
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Great Social Skills Activities for Students1. Use engaging conversation, demonstration, role-play and/or visuals to teach students what social skills are and why we need to use them.
See an example of social skills below:
When first introducing kids to a social skills group it is a good idea to have them understand what social skills are and why they are important.
As a starting activity, write down different social skills (such as the ones from the list above) on individual slips of paper and put them in a bowl, hat, etc.
Have your students sit in a circle and pass around the slips of paper, taking turns pulling them out of the bowl one at a time.
When the student pulls the slip of paper from the bowl, ask them to say what the social skill means, have them give an example, and/or ask them to tell the rest of the group why that skill is important.
Give as much guidance and support as your students need to answer the questions. You may want to go first, to show the students how to do this activity.
Here is an example:
If a student picked “sharing materials” she could say “That means to let someone use something that you are using.
For example, if I am coloring with crayons I can let my friend borrow my crayons and color with me. Sharing is important because it shows others that you care about how they feel. Part of being a good friend is sharing.”
You could even have students act out the skills. So in this example, you can have one of your students pick materials to share with the other members of the group.
You can also let students create their own drawings of the skill you are talking about. To give you an idea of what I mean, below is a drawing of sharing:
Depending on the students’ skill and age level, frustration tolerance, and ability to sustain attention, you can do all of the suggestions I mentioned in this activity or just one.
You can break this into several lessons by only doing a few social skills at a time.
You also might want to add some skills that are not on the list such as showing empathy, staying on topic in conversation, and using manners.
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Use games and fun activities to practice sharing, turn-taking, listening, following directions, encouraging others, and being polite.In the video below, the therapist uses bubbles as the prop. Other objects can be used to tailor this activity to students of different ages.
Imagine implementing this same lesson but using activities such as shooting a basketball in a net, playing with a remote control car, doing an activity on the computer, etc.
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3. Use conversation starters to create a dialogue between students or between counselor and student.
Then the youth is supposed to ask another person a question related to the topic they pick, and the other person is to ask a related question back.
This activity allows students to practice listening, taking turns in conversation, staying on topic, and expressing interest in another person’s thoughts, ideas, and/or life. See examples in the video below.
The counselor in the video below encourages the students to pick a topic from a slip of paper in a cup (e.g., friendship, fears, favorite activities, etc..)
4. Teach what is means to be a friend.
This next video gives you great ideas for how to talk to children about what it means to be a friend.
After you show the video, have your students:
- tell you what they learned about being a friend
- draw a picture that shows someone being a friend to another person
- and/or practice one of the skills in the video
For example, this video mentions being a good listener and sharing as two of the things good friends do, so as part of the lesson have your students practice listening to each other and/or sharing items.
Talk to your students about what it means to be an active listener (e.g., looking in the direction of the person who is talking, waiting your turn to speak, responding to what the person said, trying to understand how the other person might be feeling, etc.).
The “What it means to be a friend” lesson could be a great segue into the lessons above which hone in on sharing skills and conversation skills.
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5. Practice complimenting each other.
Speaking of being a good friend, complimenting others (a great friendship skill) is another nice activity to do with your group.
Set the expectations from the beginning that only kind words and respect for each other is allowed in the group.
For this activity, you could go around in a circle and have each student say something nice about someone else in the group.
To make sure everyone gets a turn to be complimented, put people’s names on slips of paper in the bowl and have them pass it around taking turns pulling out names.
This activity will get easier as the students get to know each other better.
If the students just met and are not sure what to say about each other, allow them to say something nice about a family member or friend outside of the group.
As the group gets to know each other, the compliments should be about the group members.
Side Note: To teach self-evaluation, discuss how you and your student(s)/client(s) did during each activity. Give specific feedback about what went well and discuss areas that need improvement.
Let your clients share their own thoughts and perceptions about how they did during the activity. Encourage your clients to think about their own behavior when they are involved in similar real-life scenarios.
You may be interested in Model Me Kids.Model Me Kids produces dozens of videos to teach/model social skills that can help children develop better relationships.
Video modeling is a research-based practice. You can view more of the Model Me Kids Video Program here. Below is a sample video.
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- Interactive Book Helps Kids Understand the Power of Positive Choices!
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Rachel Wise
Rachel Wise is the author and founder of Education and Behavior. Rachel created Education and Behavior in 2014 for adults to have an easy way to access research-based information to support children in the areas of learning, behavior, and social-emotional development. As a survivor of abuse, neglect, and bullying, Rachel slipped through the cracks of her school and community. Education and Behavior hopes to play a role in preventing that from happening to other children. Rachel is also the author of Building Confidence and Improving Behavior in Children: A Guide for Parents and Teachers.
“Children do best when there is consistency within and across settings (i.e., home, school, community). Education and Behavior allows us to maintain that consistency.”
www.educationandbehavior.com
Simple rules for effective participation in events
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In whatever professional field you work, regular honing and improving your own skills is an important point, without which, alas, it will not work to remain a competitive employee. You can gain skills through training, mentoring, practice, reading the necessary literature. And, of course, do not forget about industry events, which often combine practice, education, and communication with colleagues and experts in your industry. nine0009
Time to go to some conference! And we will tell you how to do it effectively.
It is at conferences, meetings with experts, master classes, workshops and other similar events that useful contacts are established, which are so necessary in order to succeed. Yes, having practical skills is important, but in matters of professional growth and career, personal connections still play a huge role. If you want to be noticed, you need to flash before the eyes of those who make decisions, and be remembered by them from a professional point of view. The more you know the experts in your field, the more doors will open for you over time. nine0009
Industry events are the best place to meet people professionally.
Firstly, because initially there will be no extra people (or their percentage will be extremely small). Marketers go to conferences of marketers, jewelry designers will not be interested there, and vice versa. Secondly, when going to a conference, people are initially set up for communication and for the fact that other conference participants will approach them in order to get to know each other, communicate and establish contacts. If you didn't know how to approach the important person in your career and how to find something to talk about, the conference will be a great time and place to finally take that step. nine0009
And even if from the first time you suddenly do not dare to approach your “professional idol”, you still will not leave the event empty-handed - at least think about all the experience that you will have time to learn from senior colleagues, speakers and invited guests. But, as in any other situation, the maximum benefit can only be obtained if you approach the issue with all responsibility, and go to events prepared.
What is behind this mysterious "be prepared" and how to participate in events effectively, so that the time and money spent on them are commensurate with the result obtained?
Looking for an event
Traveling to an event starts with finding it. You can search for events in several directions:
- Special groups in social networks. Social networks have long been something more than just a way to stay in touch with mom and friends. Facebook alone has hundreds of professional groups and communities, larger or smaller, you just have to search and choose the ones that will be of interest to you. As a rule, community members regularly post various interesting events in groups. When choosing a professional group on a social network, pay attention to how active it is (when was the last post), what region it belongs to and how many members it has. nine0004
- Events in social networks - directly the calendar of events, the one where the most interesting parties of the city are usually celebrated on the coming weekend. And although most of the events will indeed be from the “cinema, clubs, theater” category, professional events can also be found there if you configure the search correctly. Large conferences always create separate pages and events on social networks.
- Another point about social networks: personal pages of opinion leaders. Find pages of people who are famous in your industry and are considered recognized experts and follow them. Most likely, in order to maintain a personal brand, they regularly write on their pages - it is likely that from time to time they also talk about some useful industry events on them. In addition, their support is a kind of guarantor of the quality of the event. nine0004
- Online calendars and catalogs of events as a TimePad poster - now there are a lot of aggregators of business and educational events, both general and special for a particular profession. For example, for the digital market, the Tegline catalog conveniently collects and sorts events.
- Finally, word of mouth - just listen to your colleagues. Most likely, one of them has long been a regular at professional events, which will be more interesting to go to with a company. nine0004
Making a choice
Suppose that the events are found, but the list of those that interested you exceeded all expectations. Events are superimposed one on another, and in general it is not possible to visit all of them for a number of reasons. A new problem arises: how to narrow down the search area and choose from all this variety exactly the event that will be most useful to you?
The answer is simple: you need to identify the key need, think about what exactly you want to get from the event. nine0009
- Do you want to listen to a lecture by a specific person , to hear his reasoning about some situation or about an interesting case from his practice? Follow the social networks of the person you are interested in - most likely, sooner or later she will announce that she has become a speaker of a particular conference, which will greatly facilitate your choice of event.
- Or, for example, your goal is to improve some specific skill within your professional competencies. Choose something more highly specialized, thematic event, workshop. nine0004
- If you want to get involved in the community as a whole, learn more about internal trends and tendencies, perhaps you should choose more informal meetings and events focused on communication and exchange of experience.
First of all, you should start from your goals and what exactly you want to get at the event, but in no case should you forget about other factors. When choosing an event, pay attention to the speakers, organizers, past and future participants, the overall reputation of the event and, of course, its format and cost. If at least one of these points causes you doubt or concern, it is better to neglect this event and opt for another. nine0009
We need to talk
Any event is first of all people, and it is on them that you should focus. It is impossible to build a quality career if you are a stranger in your own professional community. Growth requires establishing industry contacts, and in this sense, events are the very few hours that can and should be spent on proper networking.
If you are interested in meeting as many people as possible, do not miss any opportunity. Conferences, even the most interesting ones, can really be tiring - but it's up to you to make them interesting for yourself. nine0009
- If the event takes place over several days, attend all days plus the after-party (if scheduled). It is best to spend the whole day at the event - people tend to come and go, someone is active before lunch, someone comes after the second coffee break. If you spend only part of the day at the event, it is likely that you will not be at the right time in the right place and will not meet the person who is important to you.
- Do not be afraid to communicate. nine0018 If you're not yet a communications guru, it can be difficult to approach and strike up a conversation with a person. The only thing left to do is to gradually train yourself and force you to make contacts. If at the first event you don't dare to talk to someone yourself, don't blame yourself - but be sure to try next time. And remember that the people at the conference are waiting to be approached, so in general they will be more positive towards you.
- Seize the opportunity to connect with people in different ways , this is exactly what you need to go to after-parties and coffee breaks. At the conference, you can meet the person you need in a formal setting, and at the after-party, consolidate the effect and acquaintance in an informal setting.
- Make contact immediately. Have you met a person? Ask right away if you can add him to Facebook - social networks are the easiest way to maintain professional connections now. You can also write down the phone or exchange business cards, but this is currently less effective. In the case of a recorded phone number, you are unlikely to remember at the right time that once, three years ago, you wrote down Ivan Ivanovich in a book and he can help you if you have never communicated since then. In 80% of cases, business cards are thrown into the trash at once with a broad gesture a day after the end of the event. nine0004
- Read Keith Ferrazzi's book Never Eat Alone and Other Networking Rules. Help!
Sit down, five!
There's nothing worse than attending events just for show. Yes, hoarding badges with your name from different events and hanging them over your desktop can be fun. But with this approach, it is unlikely that you will be able to take your career to a new level, while precious time and money will be wasted. nine0009
None of the events should pass without a trace for you. It’s good if you make it a habit to evaluate the results of the events you attended and the time spent on them. For clarity, you can conduct calculations on paper or electronically.
Before the event, write down your goals and expectations from it, after the event, add what results were actually obtained. To do this, for example, you can create your own scale for evaluating the usefulness of the knowledge gained, you can count the number of new contacts in a social network, or collect notes of speakers' speeches (by the way, do not forget to reread them from time to time). nine0009
Whatever way you choose to evaluate the result, attending events is first a story about connections and your education, and only after that - a pleasant time spent in the company of like-minded people at the snack table. If after the event you do not feel that you have gained at least some new and useful knowledge, but simply wasted time, this is also a result. In the long run, negative experiences will help you discard those options that turned out to be useless and focus only on what is really important and effective. nine0009
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