Social skills activities for preschoolers pdf


13 Social Skills Activities for Preschoolers + Milestones

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The foundation for a person’s social behaviour is laid during the early years, which makes preschool a crucial time to ensure your children are learning social skills.

In this article I’ll explain briefly:

  • why social skills are important
  • examples of social skills for preschoolers
  • the stages of social development
  • social milestones by age
  • 13 social skills activities for kids

Developing social skills in preschoolers is vital in order for them to be able to interact with others successfully and form healthy relationships throughout life.

As children grow, they learn about social roles, values and behaviours from the world around them.

Parents, siblings, extended family, peers and teachers all have a role to play in moulding children’s social skills.

Healthy socializing involves three general things – generosity, helpfulness and taking turns.

Generosity

Generosity is about sharing with family as well as friends. Children must also learn to respect others’ rights and possessions.

Helpfulness

Learning to be friendly, considerate and helpful must be balanced with not being overly submissive and stifling the development of their own personalities.

Taking Turns

This is one of the most important skills to learn. It is the basis of courtesy and thoughtfulness and is relevant at almost every level of life.

Children must allow others to have their turn but also have the self-confidence to insist on getting their own turn, without trying to dominate activities and conversations. The example parents set is important.

The social and emotional development of a child is an important aspect of their growth, just as much as intellectual or physical development, which we tend to pay more attention to.

Children need to build a set of prosocial skills in order to navigate communicating with others and building relationships. Here are some examples of social skills:

  • Cooperating
  • Being helpful
  • Compromising
  • Giving
  • Sharing
  • Taking turns
  • Negotiating
  • Showing sympathy
  • Having empathy
  • Imitating
  • Protecting
  • Assuming responsibility
  • Respecting others’ views
  • Showing attachment

Antisocial behaviours prevent children from communicating effectively. These are a few examples:

  • Selfishness
  • Telling lies
  • Aggression
  • Egocentrism
  • Taking others’ possessions
  • Bossiness
  • Destructiveness
  • Prejudice

In order to help children build social skills, it is necessary to first understand the social stages and milestones they will progress through so you can support them at their stage of maturity.

For example, there is no need to worry that your 2-year-old won’t share his toys as this is normal at his age. He is not yet mature enough to understand the concept of sharing.

Social development can be divided into three main stages: the Infancy, Childhood and Youthful periods.

Infancy Period

This stage begins at birth and ends at the first signs of speech. During this stage, infants learn to tell the difference between their own bodies and the environment around them.

Social development is strongly influenced by the mother-child relationship because the way a mother cares for her child will either convey tenderness or anxiety.

Childhood Period

The childhood period begins when a child uses clear speech and lasts up until the need for playmates of the same age emerges.

By following the example set by the parents, a child begins to classify his own behaviour as good or bad. He also realizes the difference between enemies and friends.

During this stage, children acquire language as well as cultural customs, such as hygiene, toilet or eating practices.

Youthful Period

This period begins when children prefer to play with others of the same age. More complex skills of interpersonal behaviour are learnt, such as cooperation, competition and compromise.

Here is a table of common milestones that occur at various ages as a child matures.

12 Months

  • Shows affection for people she knows
  • Likes to be around loved ones – to always hear or see them
  • Passes an object or toy to an adult when asked, and sometimes even spontaneously
  • Waves goodbye
  • Begins to play games such as hide-and-seek

18 Months

  • Plays alone happily but likes to be near a familiar adult or older sibling
  • Likes other children but does not play with them
  • Shows affection for family members, pets and dolls
  • Begins to imitate people
  • Repeats actions and expressions that receive a positive reaction

2 Years

  • Likes people but is still egocentric
  • Follows caregivers around the house and demands constant attention
  • Imitates domestic activities
  • May take turns but has difficulty sharing toys or adult attention
  • Throws tantrums in order to be understood
  • Happily plays near other children, but not yet with them (parallel play)
  • Sometimes hits or bites children to get a reaction
  • Can role play e. g. put a doll to sleep or wash the dishes

3 Years

  • Begins to behave unselfishly
  • Shows affection for younger siblings
  • Likes helping with domestic activities such as shopping or cleaning
  • Begins to share with others
  • Enjoys playing alone and with other children
  • Begins to show a preference for certain friends
  • Begins to show sympathy when someone is upset
  • Engages in make-believe play with dolls and toys and enjoys pretending to be someone else
  • Still sees most things from their own perspective
  • Talks about self, family and possessions
  • Shows empathy with characters in stories
  • Can wait for you to finish before talking
  • Sometimes has an imaginary friend

4 Years

  • Really enjoys the company of friends and can play in a group
  • Often has a best friend
  • Is strong willed
  • Begins to form a sense of humour
  • Understands taking turns and sharing
  • Shows concern and sympathy towards younger siblings and friends
  • Engages in dramatic make-believe play
  • Becomes competitive
  • Social skills develop such as – saying please and thank you (if taught), greeting people, talking to them, and showing respect towards others in the home

5 Years

  • Behaves in a more controlled and sensible way
  • Cooperates with companions and understands the need for rules and fair play
  • Has a definite sense of humour
  • Shows tenderness towards and is protective of younger children and pets
  • Enjoys competitive games
  • Enjoys fantasy games
  • Chooses own friends (usually of the same sex)
  • Begins to learn the value of compromise and negotiation

As you can see, sharing is a struggle for very young children. The advice is usually to divert and redirect attention when dealing with toddlers [source].

The most important activity your children can engage in, in order to develop their social skills, is play.

When preschool children play together they learn together.

Here are some reasons play is important for your child’s social development.

  1. It teaches cooperation and how to take turns
  2. Children are able to try different roles and personalities
  3. Play teaches children to verbalize their needs
  4. Kids learn to lead and follow
  5. It provides a broad base for the use of social language skills
  6. Children learn to respect others’ rights and possessions
  7. They develop an awareness of themselves as a member of a group
  8. Through play, they understand their own culture and values
  9. They gain knowledge about society’s rules and about group responsibility
  10. Play develops a positive self-image and self-concept
  11. It teaches how to participate in a group
  12. It promotes gender-role identification
  13. Children develop common goals and interests as they play together
  14. They learn to see others’ perspectives
  15. Children experience delight when playing

If you are wondering what activities would be most effective to help a child develop positive social skills, the answer is that you don’t really need a list of specific activities to “teach” them about socializing.

Rather, it is about giving them enough opportunities to play and interact and encouraging certain types of games and activities that involve interaction and cooperation.

You can discuss or play social skills games around topics like feelings and how to cope with conflict, but it will only be through experiencing these feelings and conflicts that your children will really learn these lessons and understand these concepts in a meaningful way.

Here are some simple social development activities for 3-5-year-olds.

1.

Playdates

Invite friends over for a playdate and take your children to play with friends as often as you can. Playing with siblings is also good interaction.

The more opportunities your child has to mix with others, the more they will practise socializing.

Don’t leave your young child alone with a friend if he is not yet comfortable. Give him time to build trust.

2.

Group Games

Play group games that involve taking turns and following rules.

Children will learn with time that social interaction is fun and that in order for the game to work, they need to consider each other and all be active participants.

Also, encourage musical games such as musical chairs where there are rules to follow and children have to compete while still considering each other and being comfortable with losing sometimes (e.g. if your friend gets to a chair before you).

This takes maturity to understand.

3.

Board Games

Board games are an excellent activity for older preschool children. These should have multiple players (even if you start with 2), rules and an objective (e.g. in Snakes and Ladders the objective is to reach the end first).

It can be a complex task for a child to learn to follow rules and keep the game positive while competing with friends or family members.

Younger children can start with simple card games or very basic board games.

4.

Fantasy Play

Fantasy, or dress-up play, is an important part of learning to socialize. During this kind of play, children make sense of their world and the people around them by role-playing.

This is how they “practise” being an adult, behaving and interacting as an adult would. They also act out their own social customs and norms.

Fantasy play is a great social learning activity for children playing with one or more friends, as well as for smaller children playing alone.

Even though the child is alone, the activity revolves around pretending to interact with others, which is a great way to safely act out an interaction.

Provide opportunities at home by having a dress-up section in your child’s room. Provide different themed clothes and props and change them frequently to encourage new ideas.

5.

Blocks

When children play with blocks together, they initially play alongside each other, building their own structures.

With time and maturity, they begin to share blocks, take an interest in each other’s structures and finally end up building something together.

This is one of those activities where you will see this progression clearly.

By the time children are building together, they are learning to share, listen to each other’s ideas, problem-solve, organize, share opinions, negotiate, compromise and work towards a common goal.

6.

Sensory Play

Sensory play is a fun activity that children love to do together. Whether they are playing with water, mud or sand, there is much sharing, negotiating and cooperation. It also often leads to fantasy play.

7.

Creative Play

When children are involved in creative activities such as drawing, painting, cutting, pasting or moulding playdough, they are often deep in conversation at the same time.

These activities usually happen around a table where the children are sitting calmly and are fully engaged with their playmates.

Some of the most intriguing and complex socializing I have witnessed has been around an art table.

8.

Reading

Reading to a child is my absolute favourite activity and one with so many benefits. Stories are all about people and animals and their relationships and interactions.

Read to your child daily and she will constantly be listening to how characters socialize, deal with problems, show emotions and generally interact.

You may find it hard to explain to a young child what empathy is, for example, but you can certainly teach the message with a story and let your child experience this trait on her own through listening.

9.

Discussions

Along with reading, discussions are another way to teach your children social skills.

Use every opportunity possible to discuss how your children feel, to talk about their friendships and even discuss the characters in the stories and how they handled certain situations.

When your children experience conflict with a friend, discussing possible solutions or how they can handle it is a far more educational experience than immediately intervening.

10. Manners

In my experience teaching in the classroom, the children who had lovely manners were taught at home as toddlers. Those who hadn’t been taught seldom spontaneously said please or thank you without being constantly prompted and reminded.

It is too late to teach a 3 or 4-year-old manners and courtesy. Start as early as possible.

11.

Free Play

The best socializing and learning occurs naturally – when children are playing freely with each other.

You may choose to present and encourage certain activities, such as an art project, but know that any time spent playing with others is time they are learning valuable social skills.

Try not to let screen time or too many planned activities get in the way of real play and socializing.

…and don’t forget these two important points:

12.

Build a Healthy Relationship With Your Child

A child’s primary relationship – with his parents – is the basis for all future socializing.

The relationship should be warm and close. Your child should feel love, security, acceptance, trust and self-esteem.

13.

Model Positive Behaviour

Children learn about socially acceptable behaviour by watching their parents. They learn more from watching you than from listening to you. 

I hope you enjoyed these ideas and activities for developing social skills in preschoolers.

Source:

De Witt, M. 2016. The Young Child in Context: A psycho-social perspective. Second edition. Van Schaik Publishers: Pretoria.

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66 Important Social Skills for Kids (Printable PDF)

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What social skills will my kid need to develop?

There are few parents or educators that have not explored at some point in time questions related to social skills for kids.

We wonder how we can help our kids with social skills.

We fear they may be struggling to make friends.

We get disappointed when they don’t address their elders respectfully.

And for those of us with kids with special needs, lack of social skills is a reality that we need to work on every day.

In today’s post, you will find a comprehensive checklist of social skills for kids that may give you ideas of areas you may need to develop or work on.

You will also be able to download a social skills printable PDF (poster size)  at the end of the post.

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What are Social Skills?

Social skills are those skills we use every day to communicate and interact in society, both verbally and non-verbally.

Why are Social Skills Important for Kids?

Social interaction is a key component of human learning.

Children learn about norms and acceptable behaviors through their social interaction with parents, teachers, and, later in life, peers.

Good social skills will help kids successfully interact in social situations, build positive relationships and have a better self-image.

Examples of Social Skills

The list of social skills that will help us succeed in social situations is long.

Different skills are interwoven to facilitate more complex ones.

Let’s take as an example the skill “Being able to start and maintain conversations”

If we wish to train that skill in a kid or an adult, we will also have to train several different skills like:

  • Making good eye contact
  • Respecting personal space
  • Reading facial expressions
  • Using open-ended questions
  • Active listening
  • Empathy

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Understanding Social Skills for Children

This post will capture a selection of more than 60 very important social skills that may help our kids (or us adults!) interact successfully in social situations.

Before we move into the checklist itself, let me explain how I have organized these sets of skills, to help you assimilate the enormous amount of information you will find in the social skills checklist.

You will find them organized in the following relevant sections:

    1. COMMUNICATION
      VERBAL COMMUNICATION
      Verbal communication is the use of sounds to express yourself.
      There are different types of verbal communication like interpersonal communication, communication in groups and public speaking.
      NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION SKILLS
      Non-verbal communication may be as important as verbal communication. Social success may rely on occasions on non-verbal messages.
      Non-verbal communication may:
      -replace verbal communication in some situations
      -complement, modify or contradict what we say in our verbal communication.
      Non-verbal skills are divided into:
      -body language (eye contact, posture, facial expression, personal appearance)
      -paralanguage (voice tone, voice volume, voice inflection)
    2. LISTENING
      Listening skills are essential for effective social communication.
      Have you ever been in a situation in which you are so focused on sharing your own views that you miss out on what is going on around you?
      Or have you ever told your kids that hearing you is not the same as listening to you?
    3. FEELINGS & EMOTIONS
      Being able to identify, label, and express their own emotions and others’ emotions is an important part of kids’ social and emotional development.
    4. PARTICIPATING IN GROUPS  & SPEAKING UP FOR THEMSELVES
      Have you ever looked at a kid and thought, he/she is good in one-on-one interactions, but he/she is lost in a group situation.
      Groups have their own social rules.
      Being part of groups, our kids also need to learn to speak for themselves, show respect, kindness but be able to stand their ground.
      More on the topic: Assertiveness for Kids
    5. PROBLEM-SOLVING
      Problem-solving is a lot more than an academic skill. Maths is probably the first thing that comes to mind when most people think about problem-solving. Problem-solving in life and in the social context is a key skill.

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Checklist of Social Skills for Kids

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COMMUNICATION SKILLS

VERBAL COMMUNICATION

          1. Introducing yourself
          2. Starting a conversation
          3. Maintaining a conversation
          4. Giving a compliment
          5. Accepting a compliment
          6. Learning how to finish a conversation
          7. Learning how to speak in public
          8. Learning how to address different people (a peer, a teacher, the principal, a stranger)

NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION

          1. Using the appropriate tone of voice
          2. Using an appropriate volume of voice
          3. Making eye contact
          4. Learning about facial expression
          5. Using gestures to convey information
          6. Respecting personal space
          7. Use of touch / Touching others
          8. Learning about body posture
          9. Learning to read body language
          10. Understanding personal appearance and “decoding” it

LISTENING SKILLS

          1. Learning to listen with complete attention
          2. Teaching active listening
          3. Problem-solving in a social /group context
          4. Learning to negotiate

FEELINGS & EMOTIONS

          1. Identifying emotions
          2. Labeling emotions
          3. Expressing emotions
          4. Learning to express strong feelings like anger appropriately 

PARTICIPATING IN GROUPS

          1. Joining a group
          2. Meeting new people
          3. Asking questions during conversations
          4. Learning to share
          5. Learning to cooperate
          6. Taking turns
          7. Not interrupting while others speak
          8. Following rules
          9. Accepting diversity
          10. Being patient
          11. Being assertive
          12. Accepting other people’s opinion
          13. Coping with criticism
          14. Providing feedback to other people’s opinions
          15. Learning about empathy
          16. Using good manners
          17. Asking for permission

TAKING CARE OF ONESELF & OTHERS / SPEAKING  UP FOR YOURSELF

          1. Learning to ask for help when needed
          2. Helping your friends when they need help
          3. Showing kindness to others
          4. Showing interest in others
          5. Understanding how others feel about the way you act
          6. Learning the meaning of friendship
          7. Showing respect
          8. Apologizing
          9. Learning to forgive
          10. Learning about bullying and how to avoid it
          11. Learning to express your opinions assertively
          12. Learning to say no
          13. Learning to apologize
          14. Problem-solving in a social /group context
          15. Learning to negotiate
          16. Knowing what you can and can’t share about yourself with others

PROBLEM-SOLVING

          1. Learning to identify problems and describe them
          2. Generating solutions /alternatives
          3. Predicting consequences for those alternatives
          4. Choosing the alternative that best solves the problem
          5. Taking action to solve your problems
          6. Learning to compromise
          7. Understanding behaviors that can lead to problems

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  • Social Skills Games for Kids
  • Assertive Communication Worsheets
  • I-Statements Worksheets
  • Conversation Starters
  • Roll the Question Dice Activity
  • Friendship Activities for Kids
  • Empathy Activities for Kids
  • Conflict Resolution Activities for Kids
  • Learn how to read anger signs
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    Social skills of preschoolers - development of social skills in children

    The development of social skills is a necessary point of education. A child with a high degree of socialization will quickly get used to kindergarten, school, any new team; in the future will easily find a job. Social skills have a positive effect on interpersonal relationships - friendship, the ability to cooperate.

    Let's figure out what social skills are.

    What are social skills and why develop them?

    Social skills - a group of skills, abilities that are formed during the interaction of a person with society and affect the quality of communication with people.

    Man is a social being: all our talents and aspirations are realized thanks to other members of the group. Others evaluate our actions, approve or condemn our behavior. It is difficult to reach the pinnacle of self-actualization alone.

    This is why social skills are important. They should be developed from early childhood and honed throughout life.

    Social skills are a reflection of the child's emotional intelligence, to which educators and teachers assign an important role in the process of personality development. Without this group of skills, a smart child will not be able to apply the acquired knowledge in practice: it is not enough to create something outstanding, you need to be able to correctly convey thoughts to the public.

    Sometimes people mistakenly believe that social skills relate exclusively to the topic of communication, communication. In fact, skills include many multidirectional aspects: an adequate perception of one's own individuality, the ability to empathize, work in a team, etc.

    Why do we need social skills?

    1. Regulate the area of ​​interpersonal relationships: the child easily makes new friends, finds like-minded people.
    2. Minimize psychological stress: children with developed social skills quickly adapt, do not feel sad due to changes in external circumstances.
    3. They form an adequate self-esteem from childhood, which positively affects life achievements and development in adulthood.
    4. Social skills cannot be separated from building a successful career: the best specialists must not only understand the profession, but also have high emotional intelligence.

    Development of social skills in a child

    Social skills need to be developed from preschool age, but older children and even teenagers may well learn to interact with the world.

    It is recommended to pay attention to areas of life that bring discomfort to the child, significantly complicate everyday life.

    1. Friends, interesting interlocutors: the kid does not know how to join the team, he prefers to sit in the corner while the others play.
    2. Verbal difficulties. The child does not understand the rules of conversation, is poorly versed in the formulas of etiquette (when you need to say hello, say goodbye, offer help).
    3. Problems with the non-verbal side of communication. Such a baby does not recognize the shades of emotions, it is difficult to understand how others relate to him. Cannot "read" faces and gestures.
    4. Does not know the measure in expressing a point of view: too passive or, conversely, aggressive.
    5. The child bullies classmates (participates in bullying) or is a victim.

    In case of severe moral trauma, one should consult a psychologist: for example, school bullying is a complex problem that children are not able to cope with on their own. The involvement of parents and teachers is required.

    In other cases, family members may well be able to help the child develop social skills.

    What are the general recommendations?

    1. Be patient

    Don't push your child to get the job done. Let them take the initiative: for example, do not rush to help during school gatherings, let the baby work on the problem on his own. The same goes for lessons and other activities.

    2. Support undertakings

    Children's dreams seem trifling to adults, but the initiative turns into a habit over the years and helps to discover new projects, meet people, and experiment.

    3. Criticize the right way

    When making negative comments, remember the golden rule of criticism: analyze the work, highlighting both positive and negative aspects in a polite way. Commenting on the specific actions of the child, and not his personality or appearance - this will lead to problems with self-esteem.

    4. The right to choose

    It is important for children to feel that their voice is taken into account and influences the course of events. Invite your child to personally choose clothes, books, cartoons. Ask about ideas, plans: “We are going to have a rest together at the weekend. What are your suggestions?

    5. Personal space

    Make sure that the baby has a place where he can be alone and take a break from talking. Personal things should not be touched: rearrange without prior discussion, read correspondence with friends, check pockets, etc.

    Children, noticing the respectful attitude of adults, quickly begin to pay in the same coin; the atmosphere in the family becomes warm and trusting.

    What social skills should be developed in a child?

    Let's dwell on the main qualities and skills, the development of which is worth paying attention to.

    1. The ability to ask, accept and give help

    Without the ability to ask for help, the child will deprive himself of valuable advice; the lack of the ability to accept help will lead to losses, and the inability to provide help will make the baby self-centered.

    • Let the child help those in need: for example, a lagging classmate.
    • Explain to your child that getting help from friends and teachers is not a shame.
    • Show by personal example that mutual help enriches experience: tell how you exchange advice with colleagues, friends.

    2. The ability to conduct a conversation and get the right information

    Being a good conversationalist is difficult, but the skill is honed over time and brings a lot of benefits.

    • Prompt your child for dialogue development options: for example, you can start a conversation with an appropriate question, a request for help.
    • Do not leave the child in the role of a silent listener: when discussing pressing issues at home, ask the opinion of the baby.
    • Support children's public speaking: presentations at school, performances, funny stories surrounded by loved ones will add confidence.

    3. Empathy

    Empathy is the ability to recognize the emotions of others, put yourself in the place of another person, empathize.

    This ability will make the child humane, prudent. How can it be developed?

    • Start by recognizing the child's feelings - it is useless to listen to people if the person does not feel personal experiences. Ask your baby: “How do you feel after a quarrel with friends?”, “Do you want to relax today?”
    • After conflicts with classmates, ask your child how the children with whom the quarrel may feel now.
    • While watching cartoons, reading books, pay your child's attention to the emotional state of the characters.

    4. Ability to work in a team

    Many children can easily cope with tasks alone, but this is not a reason to refuse to work in a team. It gives the opportunity to exchange ideas and experience, delegate tasks, achieve goals faster and more efficiently.

    • If the child does not communicate with members of the team, try to introduce him to another social group: for example, the lack of communication with classmates can be compensated by a circle of interests, where the child will feel calmer.
    • Make the family a friendly team in which the child has his own "duties": for example, do housework, remind parents of upcoming events. Any activity related to the well-being of other family members will do.

    5. Respect for personal boundaries

    The absence of an obsessive desire to interfere in other people's lives is a valuable skill that helps to win people's sympathy.

    • Respect the child's personal boundaries: do not enter the nursery unannounced, do not rummage through personal belongings and correspondence, if the matter does not concern the life and safety of the baby.
    • If the child violates other people's boundaries (takes toys without permission, asks uncomfortable questions), talk about it in private.

    6. Ability to overcome conflict situations

    It is difficult to imagine our life without conflicts. The task of the child is to learn how to culturally enter into a discussion, defend his point of view, and not be led by the provocations of his interlocutors.

    • Talk about problems calmly, without raising your voice. Do not put pressure on the child with parental authority unnecessarily: the child is a separate person who has the right to an opinion.
    • Do not judge people for views that differ from those of your family but do not affect your well-being. Show your child that the world is very different.
    • You can demonstrate to children the basics of a civilized dispute, explain what arguments are, etc. It is advisable to teach this child in kindergarten.

    7. Self-confidence

    Stable and adequate self-esteem is a quality that not all adults possess.


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