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Basic Abilities and Play Preferences: Birth to Age 12

This article is intended to serve as a handy reference guide and starting point for understanding and distinguishing children's basic abilities and preferences as they grow. These abilities and preferences play an important role in attracting and motivating children to interact with toys.

Developing physically, for example, changes the ways in which children are able to coordinate their gross-motor skills. Increased mobility opens up new ways to use toys. A higher level of fine-motor skill permits greater manipulation of objects. Ultimately, such knowledge helps to identify and distinguish the characteristics of toys that are appealing to children at a given age.

Although information of this sort is noted throughout the guidelines in relation to a specific subcategory of toys, this section summarizes typical play behaviors regardless of the toy used, and identifies appropriate and appealing toy characteristics that are generally consistent among all subcategories of toys. With this information, the reader will be better able to make an age determination for a given toy, even if that toy is not specifically addressed within the guidelines.

Birth Through 3 Months

Object play is limited during this period since learning occurs mostly through the reflexive actions of the child, such as spontaneous kicking or arm movements. Initially, they explore with their eyes and ears only. Newborns can focus best at about eight inches from their faces, but this increases over time and they may be able to see objects several feet away by the end of this period. Play objects should fit within their visual field at these distances. They are attracted to bright and vibrant colors, especially yellows and reds, and to objects with high-contrast patterns like black and white spirals. These children prefer the human face to all other patterns, and will watch faces intently. They will turn their heads in the direction of a sound, and are more attracted to objects that emit a gentle, soothing sound and that move slowly than to those that remain still or are too loud, too sudden, or otherwise extreme. Much of these infants' play involves watching and exploring their own body. They have a reflexive grasp, which only allows them to explore objects briefly, and at 3 months they begin to swipe or reach towards a dangling object to grasp it. Any object grasped is likely to be mouthed and to be handled with jerky, unpredictable motions. Therefore, soft, lightweight, washable, easy-to-grip objects with rounded corners are best. They start to learn and enjoy toys for which simple actions produce a clear, direct effect; for example, toys that light up, move, or create sound as a result of simple kicking or shaking.

Brightly colored and patterned toys that make gentle sounds are both appealing and appropriate for these children. Mobiles or images with bright, highly contrasting colors and patterns are appealing, as are mirrors.

4 Through 7 Months

Children now actively engage with their environments in systematic ways. Distance vision is more mature, and these children can track moving objects with smooth, efficient eye movements.

Bright colors, high contrasts, and complex patterns continue to be appealing. These children learn to differentiate among objects, as evidenced by their ability to group visual stimuli into categories. By 5 months of age, children can roll onto their backs and push up onto their hands and knees, so mobiles and suspended gyms are no longer appropriate at this age. They have mastered the ability to grasp and manipulate a dangling object by 6 months, and begin to engage in more active play by reaching, grasping, tugging, pushing, patting, shaking, and squeezing objects. At 6 to 7 months, children are sitting independently, which provides them with greater visual capacities for grasping objects or bringing objects to midline for exploration. They can manipulate objects more readily, though their fine-motor coordination is still rudimentary.

Objects are grasped using a claw-like grip or raking motion rather than a pincer grasp (i.e., using the thumb and index finger). They can transfer an object from hand to hand, and begin to use both hands independently; for example, one hand may hold an object while the other hand manipulates it. These children continue to mouth objects, so suitable toys are washable.

Near the end of this period, infants develop the ability to recognize oft-repeated words, and some are beginning to crawl and stand with support. At this time, they are also beginning to understand object permanence - that an object that is hidden or partially hidden did not actually disappear, but still exists somewhere. Soft, lightweight, rounded, and textured toys that make gentle sounds are appropriate. Hand-held objects, like simple musical toys, should be sized so these children can easily grasp and manipulate them. Books and images with bright pictures and high-contrast images are appealing, as are mirrors.

8 Through 11 Months

Much of the play during this period focuses on developing gross-motor skills as these children exhibit more outwardly oriented movements and become increasingly mobile. They can crawl forward and backward, pull themselves into a standing position, walk with support (for example, along furniture), stand momentarily without support, and complete a couple of unassisted steps.

They also begin to climb. These children explore objects in many different ways such as through grasping, shaking, squeezing, throwing, dropping, passing from hand to hand, and banging.

Although they can hold two objects and bang them together, they cannot coordinate the movements of both to use them together. They begin to develop a pincer grasp, which is used to pick up small objects between the thumb and fingers. Patterns of exploratory play begin that suggest older infants can make inferences about novel objects. For example, these children may infer what functions may operate beneath the surface of an object. They explore objects from every angle, and this often involves mouthing. Therefore, suitable toys are washable.

Many of these infants begin to use items in typical relational patterns; for example, dumping items out of a container, putting them back in, and then repeating the process. They repeat pleasurable actions often, and start to show an interest in marking on paper. Basic memory skills are developing and object permanence becomes more entrenched. When a toy is hidden or not within view, these children know the toy still exists and did not simply disappear. Infants of this age can understand simple words related to their immediate context, and need repetition and reinforcement of the words they hear. At the end of this period, these children begin to imitate gestures and the use of products. Sensory toys are highly appealing because these children are beginning to understand simple cause-and-effect relationships. Bright colors, especially yellows and reds, continue their appeal for this age group, as do high contrasts and complex patterns.

Pictures that represent familiar objects are also highly appealing. Suitable toys are soft, sturdy, have rounded edges, and are easily grasped or manipulated by the child.

12 Through 18 Months

Increasingly, these children can walk without support. However, they are still unsteady on their feet and their walking resembles toddling more than mature heel-to-toe walking. Now they want to explore everything; though their curiosity far outweighs their judgment for predicting outcomes or foreseeing dangers. They are trying out a variety of basic gross- and fine-motor skills, and are gaining confidence as climbers. They can sing to themselves and will move their bodies to music. Since they are more mobile, they can self-select toys that were once outside their reach. They find basic grasping easier, and can manipulate toys that require simple twisting, turning, sliding, and cranking. Through trial and error, they continue to explore cause-and-effect relationships like dumping and filling activities, and now they enjoy a variety of actions with objects, such as pressing, pushing, pulling, rolling, pounding, beating, clanging, fitting (for example, fitting a round peg into a round hole), stacking, marking, scribbling, carrying, and poking their fingers into objects. They delight in the many effects their actions cause, and enjoy toys that take advantage of this by the use of, for example, various sounds, blinking lights, and spinning wheels.

Children of this age can recognize the names of familiar people, objects, pictures, and body parts. Long-term memory and the development of simple vocabulary using one-word utterances now provide the foundation for make-believe or pretend play, however these children do not make clear symbolic connections until about 18 months of age. These children often imitate common actions they see - such as talking on the phone, "drinking" from a bottle or cup, or putting on a hat - but only in brief, sporadic episodes. They can defer imitating something for up to a week, and can also do so across a change in context (for example, away from home).

Simple toys that encourage pretend play, such as dress-up materials, dolls, stuffed animals, and small vehicle toys, are appropriate.

19 Through 23 Months

These children are more confident and stable at walking, and are exploring other skills such as balancing, jumping, and running. They can pull a toy behind them while walking, climb on and off furniture without assistance, walk up and down stairs with assistance, and - by the end of this period - may be able to kick a ball. They can now pick up and manipulate much smaller objects due to their more developed pincer grasp. They like to sort objects, often grouping them into two categories, and can now fit together simple objects. These children can match angles, which allows them to fit a square peg into a square hole. They can also start to use very simple coupling mechanisms like magnets, large hooks, and hook-and-loop or touch fasteners.

Represen­tational and symbolic thinking emerges during this time frame, and children understand that some toys represent other objects. Represen­tational art, however, is still in its infancy and may seem nonrepresen­tational to adults. Most of their artistic forays take the form of gestures, or a series of dots may represent, for example, a rabbit hopping. They can use simple phrases, a few active verbs, and directional words, such as "up," "down," and "in." Social play also emerges because children of this age can now communicate with and play alongside each other.

Rudimentary pretend and role-play emerge; these toddlers can pretend to be asleep and can role play a variety of commonly observed actions. As they approach 2 years of age, they may make dolls or stuffed animals assume roles, expecting them to eat pretend food. Though they still use trial and error, these toddlers can mentally consider solutions to problems before taking any action. This means they can remember and work with mental representations of familiar objects, pictures, letters, and numbers as they ponder appropriate actions. They are more goal-oriented and object permanence is more advanced. These children can help dress or undress themselves.

Toys with low to moderate cause-and-effect features - such as those with push buttons or pull cords that cause actions or sounds - are appealing to these children. Simple remote controls are also usable.

2 Years

Now that pretend play is established, 2-year-olds can perform social roles like mommy, daddy, or baby. Role taking becomes a bigger part of social pretend play, and their pretend play becomes more elaborate as they use a variety of objects to carry out longer episodes. These children need the object to resemble the real item to some degree, so they might use a cloth rather than a shoe to represent a pillow. Two-year-olds can now engage in true construction play.

They understand that pictures can depict pretend objects, and scribbles gradually become more representational pictures during this period, though they are still more interested in the process than the product. They become increasingly interested in color variations and using simple art materials. Children at this age begin to show an interest in television and television characters.

They are drawn to familiar cartoon characters from shows that they can incorporate into their play themes. They often want to know "why," and can start to use simple learning or educational toys. They understand the purpose of numbers in counting objects.

Toddlers have increasing control over basic gross- and fine-motor skills. Interest in gross-motor activity increases with newly found physical strength and basic coordination, and they especially enjoy balancing, climbing, running, jumping, throwing, catching, playing with sand, or pushing and pulling wheeled objects. They learn these skills separately during this period, and with each passing year they gradually combine them with other skills as coordinated movement. They can perform somersaults, and like to dance, twirl, and gallop to music. Although their control is still uncertain, they can kick and throw a ball. They can manage simple screwing actions, and can use simple one- or two-turn wind-up mechanisms provided they are of low tension. Smaller buttons or snaps may be difficult for these children to manipulate, but they can use large hooks, buttons, and buckles. They prefer more realistic toys, so colors other than bright primary colors (for example, pastels) become attractive. However, these toys do not need to be elaborately detailed.

3 Years

These children are entering the time of peak pretend play, and like to use replica objects as the actors in themes they sequence. A doll, for example, might be prepared to attend a birthday party with her doll friends, and they will drive in a car, eat food, and play chase or dance at the party.

Realistic props, like a realistic toy telephone, enhance pretend play at this age, but these children also start to use objects that are unlike the real item, so they might use a shoe to represent a pillow. They show greater interest in structured games. Gender preferences also become more evident. Girls typically choose dolls, household props, dress-up activities, and art materials, while boys tend to play more with blocks and small vehicle toys, and will engage in more aggressive or rough-and-tumble play.

These children progress considerably in their gross-motor skills. They can tiptoe and balance on one foot, hop, climb and slide on play structures with ease, kick or catch a large ball thrown from a short distance, and throw and aim at short distances. For example, they can now put a ball in a basket or target from 4 to 5 feet away. They now have the fine-motor skills to take on the challenge of more complex construction play, piecing together smaller puzzle pieces, cutting, pasting, and other art activities. Children at this age are still interested in different ways of manipulating a given art medium and learning about its properties, rather than creating a finished product. They start using lines to represent boundaries; this fosters the ability to draw people.

4 Through 5 Years

Drama and pretend play are at their zenith. These children like to invent complex and dramatic make-believe scenarios. They can build upon each other's play themes, create and coordinate several roles in an elaborate scenario, and better understand story lines. Many of these children still have difficulty understanding the differences between fantasy and reality. For example, children of this age may believe that monsters are real. They enjoy stepping into roles of power, like a parent, doctor, policeman, lion, or superhero, which helps them to better understand these roles, to make them less scary, or to fulfill wishes and express a broad range of emotions. As their cognitive and fine-motor skills improve, they begin to desire objects with more realistic detail, yet they still are not very concerned about mirroring reality.

These children further master gross- and fine-motor skills. They enjoy frequent trips outside to run, climb, hop, skip, and chase. They are learning to ride small bicycles, first with and then without training wheels. They are much more able to cut with scissors, paste, trace, draw, color, and string beads than 3-year-olds. They also have enough dexterity and coordination to start using a computer keyboard.

6 Through 8 Years

These children continue their interest in physical play outdoors, seeking to master more specialized physical skills. They are much stronger, have greater endurance, and are ready for more challenges. Their play includes more rough-and-tumble or risk-taking behaviors. They focus more on playing their games and activities by spontaneous or set rules, either of which can be complex. Common games outside include hide and seek, tag, and sports of all kinds. They often want to focus on and develop specific skills, and are adept at a variety of activities requiring great dexterity, such as complex hand games, jacks, snapping fingers, tying a bow, constructing models, operating hand puppets, needlepoint, sewing, weaving, and braiding. They can make small, controlled marks or movements while drawing or writing. They pay much more attention to detail, which facilitates a desire for collecting. At this stage they start using logic more often to solve problems, organize, or choose from a variety of alternatives. Their appreciation for simple jokes and riddles grows during this period. Licensed characters based on action superhero themes or friendship themes are very popular early on with this age group.

9 Through 12 Years

Children during this period continue to develop their skills at many of the sports, games, and activities from their early elementary years, however, some games become predictable and boring. Therefore, they are looking for a new range of activities to challenge their more advanced motor skills and thinking. Instead of finished products, they often prefer raw materials for creating their own unique products. These children enjoy a variety of activities at a more complex, exacting level of performance, such as woodworking, manipulating marionettes, making pottery, staging plays, advanced science projects, and generating computer graphics.

They are beginning a stage where they seek to clarify and express more complex concepts, moving from the concrete to the abstract and applying general principles to the particular.
 

Excerpted from Age Determination Guidelines: Relating Children's Ages To Toy Characteristics and Play Behavior, U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, September 2002 (public domain reprint).

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The 5 Stages of Pretend Play in Early Childhood

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Throughout early childhood, children engage in many types of play that are all equally important for their development. One of these is pretend play, also known as imaginative, make-believe or fantasy play.

Children typically progress through 5 stages of pretend play.

Pretend play may appear to just be a child imitating what they see around them and how others are behaving, but it stimulates a great deal of creativity and thinking skills.

When children act out their world together, they engage in cooperative behaviour as they work together to create a fantasy scene. This involves high levels of social skills.

They also develop emotionally as they act out life scenarios that are full of emotions and new experiences. Playing gives them a safe space to experience these big emotions.

Here are the 5 stages of imaginative play in early childhood:

1. Enactive Naming

The first phase of pretend play is called enactive naming. In this stage, a child is not yet actively “pretending,” rather she is showing the knowledge she has.

For example, the first time she puts an empty spoon or cup to her mouth, she may be imitating a behaviour she has seen, or acting out her understanding of the objects, but she is not yet playing.

She is beginning to learn the difference between real and not real. 

Young children love to imitate the actions and behaviours they see around them and may also want to sweep the floor, whether with a real broom or a toy broom. 

2. Autosymbolic Schemes

In the second stage, called autosymbolic schemes, the young child begins to display the first signs of pretending, but only in relation to herself. This starts around the age of 12 months.

A child may pretend to lie down and sleep or take a pretend sip from their cup while making noises to show she is drinking. 

At this stage you will see that the child is intending to play by her mannerisms and actions – she may smile or look at you to show you that she is pretending.

Playing with toy replicas of household objects is fun for young toddlers, and by using these items for their correct functions, they show their growing cognitive skills.

At some point, the young child will start to engage in pretend play by using objects to represent other objects. This is called symbolic play.

This means a child who wishes to pretend to talk on the phone, may reach for a block instead of a real phone or a toy that represents the real object.

The child feels that the block shares some characteristics with a phone – perhaps the size and the shape – and it becomes a good replacement for the phone.

This kind of symbolic pretend play shows yet another layer of advanced thinking.

Pretending while playing is rooted in a child’s social development. Their interactions with parents, family, peers and other caregivers forms the basis of their play, and forms the foundation for their cognitive development.

3. Decentred Symbolic Schemes

Between the age of 12 and 24 months, a child will begin to involve others in her pretend play. 

She will pass you the cup to take a sip from or try to feed you with an empty spoon. This shows that she is becoming aware of others as being separate from herself. 

From around 2 years of age, toddlers often begin to play with dolls. They see their dolls as living beings, with feelings and states, such as hunger and tiredness.

This behaviour shows a huge leap in a child’s thinking skills as she matures.

It is also believed that the advanced thinking shown during pretend play is not yet seen in other aspects of a child’s life at this young age.

During this type of play, a child knows she is pretending and knows that the other child is pretending, and that they are both attaching mental concepts to their scenario. 

This type of awareness is unusual as children typically see everything from an egocentric viewpoint. 

During pretend play; however, they are able to experience something from someone else’s shoes and even try out different points of view.

Children also show that while engaging in symbolic play they are able to assign two separate identities to an object – such as understanding that a block is a block, and in this case, also a phone.

This is something they are not able to do in other contexts, for example when looking at pictures of objects that represent other objects.

To give an example of this in a language context – a very young child knows that a banana is a banana, but will not also refer to it as a fruit.

Pretend play, therefore, plays a big role in helping a child develop thinking skills.

Even the objects that a child uses to play with show her level of thinking. In the beginning, she uses real objects, then toy replicas, then other objects as representations.

The older a child gets, the more she can use non-realistic toys in her play, with her imagination being the only thing she needs.

4. Sequencing Pretend Acts

In this stage, a child learns to apply a logical sequence to her pretending. If she wants to give her doll a bath, for example, she will take off her clothes before doing so.

The child has learned through observing others and how people behave in various contexts and is strengthening her memory skills, so that this knowledge can be used later, in a play context.

5. Planned Pretend

In this final stage, known as planned pretend, a child will collect props and items that she needs for her pretend play.

She will have a specific idea in mind for what she wants to act out and will plan accordingly. She may pretend to be a teacher giving a lesson, or a mother taking her child to the shops.

Preschoolers are usually in this stage of pretend play and they use high-level social skills while engaging.

They need to communicate well, play a specific role, allow others to play their roles, share and take turns, and follow the agreed rules, as they play with a common goal.

Sometimes this requires compromising, negotiating and persuading.

Read more about the types of play in early childhood.

Source:

Natanson, J. 1998. Learning Through Play: A parent’s guide to the first five years. Tafelberg Publishers Limited: Cape Town.

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What to do if a child considers himself a kitten

“Mom, I am a kitten!” Your four-year-old baby says and asks to be petted. Nicely. Then she meows and pretends to wash herself with her paw. It's cute too. Then she tries to eat out of the cat's bowl - so, it's not cute anymore. Children very often flirt, before you have time to look back, how playing with cats, puppies or birds is already becoming life.

Children bark in the street, asking to be called puppies, walking on a leash and brushing. Where is the line between playing and overplaying and how to stop this fun? We answer this question with the advice of psychologists and the comments of parents who do not have children, but animals. And so that you do not take this problem so seriously, we will also tell you what animals the kids play with.

What do psychologists say?

None of the children who in childhood considered themselves cats and dogs remain so in adulthood. Therefore, such a game should be perceived only as a game, you should not think about any deviations or consultations with a psychologist. However, there may be several reasons for such a game. If you are tired of barking and meowing, try to understand what exactly it is connected with.

A child may simply like an animal for some qualities that, as it seems to the child, he himself does not possess. Dogs are loyal and brave, cats are sweet and graceful, horses have manes, and birds have wings. Therefore, such a game may simply be the embodiment of the desire to have something similar. Convince the child that he either has this quality or does not need it.

HOW TO SHARE A ROOM BETWEEN CHILDREN OF DIFFERENT AGES

Even children are often addicted to playing cat-dogs, as they lack affection and attention. Lovely pets are stroked all the time, they are played with, they are given a lot of time. If the baby is constantly reaching out to you for hugs and kisses during the game, then he just wants more of your love.

It often happens that the game is caused by the fact that this very animal is not in the house, and the kid wants to have a pet, so he turns into one himself. Try to find out if your daughter wants to replace playing cat with a real cat. The opposite case is if the baby loves a pet and tries to imitate him.

If you are already tired of such games, try to talk to your child about it, say that you love the girl Masha more than the kitten Murka. And if that doesn't help, at least use it to your advantage. If you are a cat, then you should go to bed on time, because cats sleep a lot. If you are a dog, you must obey, because dogs are trained. Also, try to set a time frame for when a child can be a bird and when not.

QUIZ: WHAT PARENT ARE YOU IN A TOY STORE?

If your child takes the game from home to the street or kindergarten, try not to be shy or rude to him. Do not think that other adults will not understand you, you are not the only family that raises an animal. If the girl is barking outside, say that only children are playing on the playground, and it’s time for the dogs to go home. If the teacher complains that a kitten has wound up in the group, which licks its paws, explain to the kid that cats are not allowed to enter the garden. There are so many things that kids love that animals don't - use these arguments.

And just be patient. Usually, by school, such hobbies pass and others begin. And some parents start to miss their little cat.

What do parents say?

“My child has been playing for two years. Two, Carl! In the end, when once again the child mentioned that he was a pussy, I gave out a long tirade in places not for children's ears on the topic that this game got to me, and I no longer want to hear about cats, dogs, or other animals . I will play only with a person, but with THIS, even if it doesn’t fit. The child, perplexed, listened to my cries and asked quite like an adult: “What should I play with you then?”
This is where I realized my cant. We played a lot and in different ways, but since then metamorphoses into little animals have never happened.

“Yes, it’s okay for you))) cats are so convenient to manipulate))) if they don’t obey, then I’m a dog)) in the game everything is done easily and naturally. If she’s really “flirting”, then I say that since she’s a cat, then we won’t swim in the evening, they say, cats don’t like that ...)) she immediately - no, no, no longer a cat)) (loves to swim) ".

HOW TO DEAL WITH A CHILD'S HISTERY?

“Yes, yes, it’s simply impossible, in our country, of course, it’s not yet measured in years, but the topic is already a puppy with experience. Yelling, asking, ignoring nothing helps, he will bark and bark. As a result, I freaked out, said that since I was a puppy, I would train for an hour a day. And she began to drive him on bring-give. And how trying to leave, the "place" team! As a result, he realized that it was no longer fun, though he didn’t stop playing puppy, it’s just that now he’s climbing to his dad with this.

“I'm fine with that. The eldest was also a kitten for a long time, she grew up as a human being. Now the younger one has also “looked around”, and worse than that one. I play along where I can. And if I get tired, it's not because she's a cat, but just because of her. If she didn’t meow, but sang, I would be tired too, what’s the difference then? It passes, I don’t understand that everyone is so crazy. It’s no more difficult with animal children than with ordinary children.”

Our home zoo

Kittens, dogs are the most common children's "transformations". There are others that are much more original.

“Squirrel has been living at my house for a year now. This is Belchonok or Squirrel. She eats nut porridge, fried mushrooms, etc. When I pick up my daughter from the kindergarten, she runs to me shouting “Belchikhaaa”. And on the street he meets the children “I am Diana the Squirrel”, and the children are not at all surprised.

"Ours introduces himself to the surrounding people as 'I am Gallahard's knightly horse.' and gallops in circles with a loud neigh."

“pussy squirrels… I have a dinosaur living here… some kind of pachycephalosaurus or velociraptor, running and growling. I would gladly trade for a pussy."

"Mine thinks he's a dolphin."

WHEN CAN A CHILD GO ALONE?

“My youngest was a gopher for almost the entire kindergarten age. He made a hole out of a blanket, stood in a column, nibbled something vigorously, etc. My husband was very nervous, kept asking me if this suslimania would pass soon. Passed to the first class ... ".

“My oldest plays leopards. He is a grown up leopard cub, the youngest is a leopard cub, I am a mother leopard, I like it. But when the game goes into a different direction and he is a mother leopard, and the younger one and I are leopard cubs, then it becomes no laughing matter - we have to eat houses, stones, go for a walk in a cloud and other “mom” oversights.

"Today mine became an antelope. She ran down the street on all fours (however, as usual), and running into the group, she stopped and began to beat with her hoof. "Look how much gold flies! I am an antelope!"

“Girls, my daughter at 2 and a half years old was generally a SLUG!!! and this went on for quite some time. My daughter just really liked the slug in the picture, he was really very cute. I told her about them, and my daughter was impressed. She behaved quietly and calmly. But people, of course, fell out when she presented herself as a slug. Then they asked again for a long time ... ".

Good luck to you and your animals!

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indoor entertainment for a group of teenagers


Who am I?

A piece of paper with the character's name is stuck on the player's forehead. We need to find out who is written there. You can only ask questions that have only 2 answers: yes or no.

Fanta

The belongings of all participants are placed in a box. The host is blindfolded and asked to pull out any of them. The owner of the item performs the task announced by the organizer.

Crocodile

A teenager silently gesticulates, imitating a word written on a piece of paper.

Truth or Dare

Participants choose one of two things: either reveal their secret or do something.

Games for a large company of teenagers

Fun games for large groups suggest team games. You can find a lot of such ideas, however, from the majority, the choice should fall on funny unusual options in order to arrange a positive holiday for children, vacations or just a day off. We have tried to compile a free list of fun leisure games for a large company of young people that you can interest them in at your celebration.

Unforgettable shooter

If your party guests are a large group of guys, then you can arrange a fairly popular business that all the boys like. Shooters are shooting games, in simple terms. In the course of such a game, the children have the opportunity to train, develop their skills, abilities and dexterity, which they previously demonstrated only when passing through the next level of a computer battle.

The main task is to acquire cool laser weapons that players will use. Pay attention to quality so that the competition is held at a high level. Before the game, the entire "composition" of the guests is divided into two teams. Next, the strategy of the game will be built and the goal will be set, for example, to capture the flag or during the game to capture any representative of the opposite side.

At the end, you can teach children something new, for this you can order an exit quest, the assortment of which is very diverse.

Sports club

It is always interesting in a competitive scenario for a large team to have active fun, such as a relay race. A few extreme games for powerful strength, and not for testing the brain, will be useful for children. Especially if the event is held outdoors: summer cottage, summer camp, country house, etc.

The degree and difficulty of physical activity during the relay should be chosen based on the age and ability of the participants. Try to combine easy stages (sack running, ball throwing, etc.) with difficult exercises (obstacle course, handstand, etc.).

By the way, at the end of such a competition, you can also arrange education and training for small strong athletes.

Bicycle racing

Boys and girls love racing simulators on the computer. They get pleasure and great emotions from them. But what if you play this format on the territory of your home yard or on a special track. Such an adventure is suitable for the summer period, and not for the winter holidays. But! In winter it is possible to have a similar fun race on skis, snowboards or other equipment.

But try to approach the organization in a serious way, as this genre of games is dangerous and requires especially careful preparation.

Try to select either 2-4 teams or several individual players for the game. In terms of time, this race should take no more than an hour so that the children benefit and enjoy, but do not have time to completely get tired of the many races.

Fantasy

The facilitator invites players to take turns pulling leaves with funny phrases from a hat (for example, famous phrases from movies, memes, TV series, cartoons, etc.). The task of the participants in the "Fantasy" contest is to pronounce a certain phrase with a special intonation (each time with a new one). It can be anxiety, surprise, doubt, etc. As the game progresses, those players who cannot come up with a new intonation are eliminated. It will be difficult to choose one winner here, so the game is played by up to three best dreamers.

Entertainment for a small group of teenagers

It is wrong to think that it is difficult to find a scenario with games for small companies. You can play at least two, the main thing is to choose characteristic contests that will be aimed not at team interaction and communication skills, but at creativity or ingenuity. So the characters will be able to demonstrate the features of the game and communication in a small company.

It is worth offering completely different classes for participation. We have tried to put together activities that you can do with older or younger teenagers. You can also help the guys in the role of a leader in the process of the event, and leave the development of the game exclusively to the participants. So it will turn out to create a cool sphere for spending time together.

Open microphone

This game belongs to the humorous category. It is important to have a sense of humor and the ability to present your own material in an original way. Surely, high school students love and can view stand-up online for free on the Internet and know perfectly well what it is. But what if you organize a mini-club of comedians right at home or in a school classroom? To do this, you do not need to buy the necessary equipment or order a service and contractors. You will need an impromptu microphone and stage, chairs for guests and a huge desire to rock.

The development of a humorous plot is carried out by the participants, who during the competition can open up in a completely different way. Such activities will help to have fun and even relax. The game, by the way, can be the main entertainment at the festive event.

By the way, stand-up humor ratings in Russia today occupy the main place. It is possible and necessary to grow and develop personal skills in this hobby if the world of humor captivates the student. Moreover, there are no methodological courses or training needs for several years. The main thing is to learn the ability to make a verbal sensation!

Movie Pages

This game can be fun for two or four players. Her main task is to watch a movie, but it is different from the usual. Here you need memory, attentiveness and the so-called portal of cinematic fantasy. You will have to describe the film from memory, the name and photo of the poster of which will be in the envelope. It can be both Russian and foreign; both melodrama and horror. If you do not know this picture, you can offer the presenter to change the film project from the collection. But this can only be done once.

You can give about 5-10 minutes to discuss with your partners. During this time, you should write a 10-sentence review of the painting. You can only get it wrong twice by saying the wrong fact about cinema. So, this is a game where your million views on KinoPoisk will not hurt, but will give you an advantage and help you go to success.

The edge of trust

A kind of fairy tale about a turnip, but you don't have to help pull the root crops, but let the children test their friends on a psychological level through physical contact. Do not assume that the competition for a sense of trust will be to the taste of any small company. It is worth picking up close friends from the same class or section for the event, who will lend a hand in a difficult situation.

There are no provisional winners or losers here. You can only note the internal general ability to trust. The theme of the game is as follows: the players are divided into two. One should fall back, and the second should direct all his strength to catch him. Try not to catch at the beginning, so that the person begins the period of free fall. This will show complete trust on the part of the falling person. Believe me, even the most daring will have the fear of falling and will not trust the first time.

Fun and funny games for teenagers

No matter how old a child is, he will always love fun activities and prefer games to other undertakings. Puzzles, role-playing quests, tricky contests are what teenagers will always prefer. Parents just need to let them be kids more often so they can spend more time growing up and see the beauty in the little things. Here are several types of funny games that you can arrange not only for a holiday, but also on any day of the week.

Whimsical chef

Even the little ones can take part in the fun. The task is to understand the tastes blindfolded. During the game, participants will be able to "profit" from different dishes: buckwheat, cabbage, pasta, ice cream, fruits. The main thing is the correct assessment of what they will try. And you will have to eat blindfolded, this will help "knock down taste navigation."

Fashion from Tik-Tok

We all know how popular the Tik-Tok application is, it is now in the top. Almost all teenagers are registered there. This network tends to have many favorite teen bloggers. But for the game, they are not important to us, but their images, which will have to be collected from improvised materials. It is unlikely that it will be possible to convey exactly the outfit, but the fun is definitely guaranteed.

Presentation in 3-D

This competition will bring a lot of fun and joyful emotions to both the audience and the participants themselves. Participants form teams of 4-5 people. Each of the teams chooses their phantom, which will indicate to them a certain situation, which they must show in 3-D. For example, rest by the sea: someone shows seagulls with their hands and voices them with cries of “my my mine”, someone imitates a gentle sea breeze, someone sounds the splash of sea waves, and someone shows a bright glow from the sun. Situations in fantasies can be completely different, for example, flying into space, morning in the forest, and so on. Whose team will show the best 3-D performance, that team will receive their prize.

Team games for teenage events

Depending on the format of the event for teenagers, a scenario and competitions are selected. If you have a social meeting without humorous overtones, you need to choose creative and intellectual games. And a birthday or a party in the summer can be decorated with funny active fun. Choose what you like.

World of zombies and travelers

Choose 2 zombies among the project participants, the rest will be travelers. The task of 2 drivers is to turn everyone on earth into zombies. To do this, they must discreetly attach a sticker to the guest's clothes, which they will be given in advance. If the traveler sees a zombie, he must sneak up behind him and put both hands on his shoulders, so the zombie will be eliminated. Zombies win if their 2-person clan can grow to the number of all the guests at the event.

Business meeting

This game belongs to the serious section. It is suitable for high school graduates. Players are divided into a group of buyers and several teams, each of which is given a product. The task of the participants is to come up with a selling strategy so that buyers want to buy it. The center of the problem is how much the product will cost. The team that can sell their item for the highest value wins.

Hear me

For this competition, you need to prepare many, many small notes with different words, preferably long ones (one note - one word). All the guys are sitting at their desks, one brave participant goes to the board and waits until each of the other guys gets their forfeit. Each fanta (note) contains a word. At the expense of “one, two, three,” the guys loudly, loudly, in one voice, each shout their own word. The task of the participant near the board is to make out as many words as possible among the "hype". Then the second participant comes to the board, the guys again take out forfeits with different words. The winner of the competition will be the participant who can make out more words in the “chorus” of classmates than the rest.

Games for teenage girls

Love and doves

Girls love all kinds of romantic games. Therefore, we suggest that during the game they go to the other side of the barricades. Among the guests, 2-3 participants are chosen who will write a romantic confession of feelings to a guy who does not know about their love. These letters can be judged by other girls by points or loud applause.

Blind make-up

The name makes it clear what needs to be done. The task of the girls is to make up their partner in the game. But the problem is that the participants will be blindfolded. Let's see who can handle the task more accurately.

An interesting application

A funny competition for which you first need to collect different objects in one large bag, for example, a toothbrush, a balloon, curlers, a computer mouse, etc. Players (their number is determined, taking into account the number of different items collected in the bag) must take out these items in turn and within five seconds voice how they could be used (an obvious use, like a comb combing hair, cannot be called, you need to be original) . Everyone who could not come up with an answer within five seconds is out of the game. Important! This game can be played in another way, complicating it. By choosing, for example, only two subjects, the use of which will be found in turn by everyone (the main thing is not to repeat yourself, voicing the answers).

Contests for teenage guys

Combat battle

For older guys, it would be quite appropriate to hold an arm wrestling competition. You don't need any equipment or props for this. Only strength and desire. Arrange an even number of rounds where the winners of each will fight other winners. So you will reach the final, where you will determine the winner.

Spring in February

The task of the guys is to make a bouquet for the girls, but the problem is that there are no flowers. And there is only paper, glue, scissors and a stapler. Let's see how they can prove themselves in hand crafts. By the way, you can help young florists and prepare templates for cutting out details by downloading materials from the Internet.

Board games and contests for teens

I never…

The kids get an equal number of chips (or other similar items). The first participant enters the game - he talks about what he has never had to do. If another player did this, he puts the chip in the middle of the table. Whoever has the most chips will be declared the winner.

Is that you?

Each person present needs to write on a piece of paper a little-known fact about himself, his cherished desire or dream. Having done this, he puts the note in the box. The messages are taken out one at a time, read and guess who they belong to.

A glass with a trick

Salt water is poured into one glass (because beer is contraindicated for teenagers), and ordinary water is poured into the rest. Participants take glasses and take a sip. The one who drank water with salt should keep a straight face. The rest are invited to guess who got the water "with a surprise."

Monopoly

Everyone knows this board game. There are a number of valuable assets on the game board, each of them has its own value. Participants receive start-up capital. They alternately roll the die and make as many moves as it rolls. Anyone who has landed on a cell with a valuable thing can redeem it. If an opponent's chip gets on your enterprise, he will have to pay a percentage. After passing a specific area, the teenager makes a profit. On the field there are cells with taxes, fines, bonuses. The player with the most money and valuables wins.

Mafia

It is played with special cards, each representing a specific character. A simplified version of the game implies the presence of a host, mafia and civilians. While the sun is shining, the civilians are awake, and the mafia is hiding among them. The night is coming. Residents go to bed (they blindfold or close their eyes), and the mafia is activated and kills one of the civilians. The next morning, the leader will call the name of the murdered. The mafia is trying to cover their tracks, and the inhabitants are trying to find out who the mafia is (through collective voting). In the morning, the townspeople decide who needs to leave the city. When the voting ends, the player shows everyone the card.

A more complex version of the game involves the introduction of a commissioner into it. At night, he names characters suspected of being mafia collaborators. The host says: "The commissioner missed" if it is peaceful, and reports the death of one member of the mafia if the named one belongs to it. At night, the doctor is allowed to point to any person. He is considered "healed" and remains in the game if he is chosen by the mafia or civilians. And every night, a maniac operates in the city, acting independently of the rest.

Finger only

Participants stand in a row (next to each other). All participants are blindfolded. The host announces the rule: you can only touch an object with your index finger. The facilitator in turn approaches the first, second, third (and so on until the last) participant and takes out one item from the bag, for example, a kiwi, a woolen sock, a wig, a bill, a jar of Nutella, and so on. The host takes out an object for the participant, he touches it with his index finger and guesses what it is. The host goes through 3-4 circles for the participants, after which the game ends. The winner will be determined by the largest number of items guessed with the index finger.

Youth Day competitions

Crazy dances

The host changes the rules when switching from one song to another. So, when the first song is played, everyone dances without moving their legs. When it ends, the inactive will be weeded out. When the music starts again, everyone will have to dance while seated, with only their heads allowed. The inactive ones are weeded out again. On the third composition, the guests dance using only facial expressions.

Like-minded people

Players sit on chairs. The organizer asks those who love brunettes, watch films for adults, sing in the shower, etc. to change places. The one who rises sits on the vacant chair. Anyone who fails to take a seat is eliminated from the game.

Confusion

The competition will require the same number of boys and girls. Each participant receives a card with the name of the animal written on it. When the signal sounds, everyone begins to depict their animal with facial expressions and gestures. The goal of the game is to find a partner in this mess.

Centipede

Players line up and grab their neighbor by the waist. The host commands how the centipede will go: through the obstacle course, running, on tiptoe. Those who did not keep their balance or removed their hands from their waists are expelled.

Artwork

Competitor making a figurine out of a towel. Others guess what he depicted.

Company games for young people: a list with a short description

  1. Truth or Dare - the facilitator calls a person in turn, and he must choose whether to tell the truth about himself or complete the task.
  2. Crocodile - the participant must show the others the word written on the task card without saying a word.
  3. Fanty – each participant puts an item belonging to him into the box. The facilitator blindly selects an item and gives a task to the participant to whom that item belongs.
  4. Who are you? - the participants are stuck on the forehead with a sticker on which the character is written. It is necessary to determine who you are by asking your opponents questions that can be answered yes or no.
  5. New Outfit – In a dark bag you need to put various clothes: bras, clown nose, children's tights, etc. The packet is passed around the circle until the host says: "Stop!". The one on whom the package has stopped pulls out the first thing that comes across and must put it on.
  6. Twister - using a tape measure and a cloth with colored circles, participants must place their hands and feet on certain circles without falling.
  7. Trouble - relevant with the same number of men and women. For women and men, an animal is thought of. On command, all women should make the sounds of their animal, and men in this commotion should find their mate.

Riddle games

12 clues

The competition is like a quest. The host hid 12 notes. Finding one, you can find another. To complicate the task, encrypt the next place in the scanword or riddle.

At my command

Each company member is given a note asking them to do something. The guests are trying to figure out what they wished to whom. Examples of tasks: portray the voice of a famous artist, pretend to be sick, be sad for any reason.

Trust your intuition

There are 2 teams in the game. The guys stand one after another, forming a column. The first player receives a paper with a pencil. The latter looks at the picture shown by the presenter for some time. Then he draws it with his finger on the neighbor's back. He tries to repeat the pattern on the back of the next person. The first player analyzes everything that he felt and puts it on paper. Whose drawing is more consistent with the original, he won.

Who is the killer?

The folded sheets are placed in a box. They have different inscriptions - "Victim", "Killer", "Detective". Each participant pulls out a piece of paper with a role. All the action takes place at the table or just in the room. The killer eliminates the victims by winking at them without the detective noticing. "Killed" are considered retired. The detective has to catch the killer red-handed. Once found, the game will end.

The most dexterous couple

It is not necessary to invite real couples to take part in this competition, everyone can choose. In total, the leader must form 3 teams of 2 people each. The task of the players is to stand opposite their partner in such a way as to squeeze a balloon between their stomachs. On command to incendiary music, the participants of the “Most Deft Couple” must move (without hands) the ball up to the line of the mouth. If the ball flew away, then everything needs to be done all over again. If the balloon burst, then the team is out of the game. The winner is the pair that completed the task faster.

Outdoor outdoor games for teenagers

Helpers

The competition is held in a company of 10 or more people. The organizer prepared tasks for the children in advance. They are divided into 2 teams and begin to perform, simultaneously filming what is happening on the camera. Sample tasks: pull up on the horizontal bar 5 times, help the old woman cross the road. Whoever does it faster wins.

Jumanji

First, we make a large game cube from a cardboard box. Draw large cells on the asphalt. The game resembles a board game, only a cardboard box replaces a cube, and people act as living "figures". Each cell has its own task. Standing on it, the participant performs what is written.

The most accurate

Attach balloons to branches or fences with tape. The task is to burst more balls than the opponents. To make it easier for players to aim, number them using a marker.

Bottle bowling

Stock up on makeshift skittles (empty bottles) and a ball. The rules are similar to regular bowling.

The floor is lava

The game is played on a walk, on the way to the store, etc. A friend abruptly announces that the floor is lava. The rest should have their legs off him in a minute. Climb any hill: a horizontal bar, a tree, a bench. The one who could not escape from the "lava" in time is out.

Go unnoticed

A park or a forest serves as a place for organizing the game (because there are a cluster of trees). The driver walks along the path, the rest of the participants follow him. When the first player turns around, the others should hide behind the trees and bushes. The one who is noticed is considered to be out. Whoever gets close to the driver first (or will be very close to him), he won.

Make up your own word

For this competition, the presenter must think over and choose interesting words. For example, in front of the guests there is an easel and the word is written -. y. nya The facilitator explains that the guests should think carefully and pronounce the word that fits, that is, simply add letters instead of dots. Or, for example, you need to make a word of 5 letters, in which the letters p, z, d, a are necessarily present. Thus, guests will cheer themselves up and enter into courage. But the answers are quite simple. The first option is the kitchen, and the second option is the west.

Modern games for teenagers

Find me via social network

Choose a driver, ask him to count to 10. The rest of you need to hide and take a selfie in the chosen place. Hide in a small area. Pictures are sent to the driver in private messages. He starts searching for the player, focusing on the received photo.

Stand straight

Water is poured into the bottle, filling it halfway. Players toss their bottles until someone's bottle is straight. This person is declared the winner.

Sox

You will need a small ball that is easy to hold with your toe. Players need to pass the ball along the chain without dropping it. You can’t do this with your hands - only with your legs and chest.

Pickup truck

Players choose a victim of the opposite sex (from street strangers). The purpose of the task is to arouse interest in a person, make acquaintance with him, exchange phone numbers. To achieve the task, connect the charm. The one who was able to establish closer contact with the “victim” will win.

Funny story

An improvisational game in which the participants will once again have to demonstrate their imagination and ingenuity. The number of participants is up to 8. Rules: 1. The first player names two words that are not related to each other. An example is a TV and a tree. 2. The task of the second is to connect these two words in one sentence (but in such a way that it turns out funny). Example - "The wife is tired of the fact that her husband watches a lot of TV, so he moved with him to a tree." 3. The second player immediately, voicing his version of the application, calls the word. An example is a bed. 4. The third participant must come up with a proposal with him so that it serves as a continuation of the previous one. Example - "He did not sleep as comfortably in a tree as in a bed." After that, the player calls his word. 5. The game continues until the players run out of ideas. Important! You can complicate this competition by forcing the players to repeat every time all the sentences said by other participants in the game earlier. Then those who could not complete this task will drop out of the Funny Story.

Mind games for a group of teenagers

I take

The player writes in the notes of a smartphone or on a piece of paper a rule according to which things are selected for travel. Then he says the phrase “I take with me ...” and a thing that meets the intended condition. Others also name items and ask if they can take them with them. The one who first announces the hidden rule wins.

Guardian of secrets

The driver thinks up a catch phrase and tells how many words it contains. Next, the "guardian" listens to questions from other players. It must include the words from this expression in the answer. For example, we take the phrase: “Without labor, you can’t even pull a fish out of a pond.” Participants can ask 5 questions to it.

Question: “What would you like to eat?”

Answer: "I want to eat fish

."

Question: Have you been to the sea?

Answer: “No, but I was resting at pond

– we have a big one. ”

All responses are recorded and analyzed by participants. They then attempt to decipher the expression.

What movie?

Each player receives a card with a description of the film. Guess what it's called. Approximate description: “A lonely boy with glasses gets taken care of by harmful relatives. And then he runs away from them after the owl, and ends up in a magical school. (Harry Potter)

What would you do if…

A game in which you have to answer questions correctly and vividly. Examples: What would you do if… a tornado rages next to you? brother lost your house at cards? you ended up at the museum at night? threw a cake at your boss?

Logic chains

Players sit down at the table. The first one says 2 words - let it be “car” and “cabinet”. The second participant connects these words into a single sentence: “My husband secretly bought a car, and hid the documents for it in a closet.” Then he says his word, for example, "handkerchief. " The third comes up with a continuation of the story, adding a new word to it: “If he had closed the documents for the car with a handkerchief, his wife would not have found them.” The duration of the game depends on the imagination of the guys. You can make it harder by asking everyone to voice the entire story.

Force of attraction

The children are divided into pairs. Each couple takes turns. The members of the couple stand with their backs to each other. Participants are tied around the waist with tape. On one wall there is a sheet with simple examples for one participant, and on the second wall there is a sheet with the same examples for the second participant. The couple stands at the same distance from the walls. Each participant has a pen in their hand. On the “start” command, the participants begin to overcome the force of gravity and try to overpower their opponent by reaching their wall in order to write an answer to the example. The participant who can answer all his examples the fastest will be the winner. Then it's the next couple's turn.

Outdoor contests for teenagers

In search of the flag

The organizer divides the site into 2 approximately identical sections, hides a flag in each. Teenagers are divided into 2 teams and look for him in their area. Whoever finds the flag faster wins.

Move like me

The players try to dance exactly like the leader. To keep the participants from relaxing, complicate the movements. Players who did not have time to repeat after the leader are considered to be eliminated.

Selfies

Participants are divided into small groups. Each of them takes a selfie against the backdrop of a green fence, pets, on their favorite sofa, etc. The winner is the one who took the original picture faster than the others.

Fashion experts

4 participants come to the board. The board is divided into 4 parts. Each part of the board contains the same list, for example: Song - ... Men's hairstyle - .. . Women's hairstyle - ... Men's clothing - ... Women's clothing - ... Advertising - ... Profession - ... Series - ... Clothing brand - ... Perfume brand - ... Children's toy - ... The verbal expression of the youth - ... Passion - ... and so on. On the “start” command, the participants begin to fill in the lists, entering all the most popular and fashionable there, that is, which song is in fashion today, for example, the song “The Wind Blowed from the Sea”; men's hairstyle - shaved sides and a pigtail at the top; women's hairstyle - bob; men's clothing - low-waisted jeans, T-shirt and jacket, and so on. After the participants have filled in the lists, a vote is taken. Whose list "in fashion" will receive more applause, he will be the winner.

Youth game “International tag”

The game has become very popular among young people. What is the point? One player flies into the country to another without warning him. Having chosen the moment, he taunts the unsuspecting “victim”, photographs her reaction and immediately flies to his home.

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