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Patience is one of nine virtues found in Galatians 5:22-23: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” We also discover that patience is listed first among the love qualities found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-5: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” The New Bible Dictionary defines patience as “God-given restraint in the face of opposition or oppression.”

From time-to-time, we all struggle with the need to exercise patience. Patience comes from God, and His Spirit is the means of this very desirable fruit. The following article by Dr. Scott Turansky will help you practice patience and teach your children its value.
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Patience is a virtue but few children understand what that means. Young children want it now and resort to all kinds of attention-getting tactics to get it. Badgering is that tenacious way children ask the same question over and over again. And then there’s the whining. It can drive even the most healthy person crazy.

Children need to learn how to wait for things. It’s a reality they’ll face all of their lives. They may as well start now. Children tend to live for the present. One mom of a ten-year-old said, “My daughter found out that she had a large school project due in two weeks. Instead of thinking about starting the job right away, she assumed that meant she had 13 days before she needed to begin.”

One of the ways we help children learn patience is to teach them how to wait. They may not be able to wait long at first but the idea of waiting doesn’t have to be like a foreign language. “Could I have a snack?” “Well, it’s 2:30 now. Let’s have a snack at 3:00.”

Sometimes children will try to interrupt your conversation on the phone, or your interaction with someone else. One mom said, “I’ve told my son that if I’m on the phone and he wants to talk with me, that he can come over and gently put his hand on my arm to communicate that he wants to talk to me. I will either pause from my conversation to talk to him briefly or sometimes I’ll just put my hand on his, communicating that I know he’s waiting.”

Talk to children about the maturity involved in waiting. You might define the character quality in practical ways that your children can understand. Patience is waiting with a happy heart. Or, patience knows that good things come to those who can wait.

Realize that the resistance your children exhibit to your “patience training” exercises is just the confirmation that they need to learn this valuable quality. They don’t need harshness, but firm limits are good for children. Your work in this area will help them be more successful as they grow. Start with small changes. Demanding children are unhappy children and indulging them rarely brings about peace. What they really need to learn is patience.
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Children Need To Know

Children of God trust the Spirit of God (Romans 8:14). Christ-following children can learn to walk in the Spirit moment-by-moment. They do this as they are taught to rely on the Holy Spirit to guide them in thought, word, and deed (Romans 6:11-14). Children can discover and be encouraged to know they are walking in the Spirit when their lives reveal the fruit of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control).

Teach Children:

  • If they are Christ-followers, they are children of God (Galatians 3:26-27)
  • To walk in the Spirit (Romans 8:4)
  • To set their minds on the things of the Spirit (Romans 8:5)
  • To be led by the Spirit (Romans 8:14)

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Patience Definition & Meaning - Merriam-Webster

pa·​tience ˈpā-shən(t)s 

1

: the capacity, habit, or fact of being patient

2

chiefly British : solitaire sense 2

Synonyms

  • forbearance
  • long-suffering
  • sufferance
  • tolerance

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Example Sentences

To be a biographer is a somewhat peculiar endeavor. It seems to me it requires not only the tact, patience, and thoroughness of a scholar but also the stamina of a horse. —Nancy Milford, Vanity Fair, August 2001 … in this time of bioethical conundrums, it is good to know that patience, good will, and personal morality will untie far more intellectual knots than the disarray of rancor, conflict, and special interests … —Sherwin B. Nuland, New Republic, 13 Dec. 1999 Mind-numbing delays and irrelevant search results are enough to try the patience of the most saintly Web surfers. —Neil Gross et al., Business Week, 14 June 1999 After a while, their ideological certitudes tried the patience of their own peoples … —Arthur M. Schlesinger, Jr., New Yorker, 16 Nov. 1992

I don't have the patience to wait in line for hours just to buy a ticket. Investors need to have patience. The economy will improve soon. She treated her students with great patience and humor. I don't have the patience to do crossword puzzles. See More

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First Known Use

13th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1

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pa·​tience ˈpā-shən(t)s 

: the quality or state of being patient

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Patience in dealing with children.

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Patience in dealing with children

Parents tend to try to be patient with their children. To have patience means to be able to calmly wait, calmly achieve certain actions, endure anxiety or pain as calmly as possible. This concept also includes firmness of character, a sense of self-control and courage. All these qualities are very important in the attitude of parents to children. nine0003

Being patient with children can be both short-term and long-term. Parents should remember that a child moves more slowly than an adult, so he dresses, eats, bathes, collects toys, and gets ready for bed much longer than his parents. And it should be remembered that all these processes are relatively new for him. No matter how much a child wants to please his mother, he is not able to do it faster or think it over in advance. He lacks the coordination of movements in order to dress himself: for example, putting on a sock requires concentration and painful effort. If the child is rushed, he spends even more time or he generally loses the desire to learn to dress himself. nine0003

A mother who is accustomed to doing everything quickly should accustom herself to waiting, to walk more slowly, to stop often, to calmly listen to any stories of her son or daughter. She should especially try to avoid feeling irritated by reminding herself that this is the most the child can do, or that this is the fastest walk for him.

Calm perseverance is another meaning of the word patience and is important when it comes to helping a child learn a skill. It is not enough just to wait until he learns. It is also necessary to adhere to a number of rules and guide the child in the learning process. He always needs firm guidance from his parents. nine0003

Parents must show long-term patience with their child's growth rate. So far, not everything is known about individual differences in the development of children and those jumps that distinguish their growth at different stages. Some children are slower than others to get used to new foods, some children find it difficult to get used to using the toilet, a small child may develop muscle coordination quickly but learn to speak slowly, etc. Parents should not be dissatisfied if their the kid does not make such progress as the neighbor's children or his schoolmates. nine0003

But parental patience is also not unlimited. And when they are presented with impulsive, sometimes not entirely reasonable, often irrational demands, parents must make it clear to their children that there is a limit to everything. Patience is not a parental virtue if it allows children to commit uncontrollable destructive acts or make unreasonable requests. Being patient with children means being positive and tolerant, but not yielding out of weakness.

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"Mom, let's go": how to teach a child patience . Few parents understand how difficult it is for a baby to show this quality, especially up to two or three years.

The parts of the brain that are responsible for the child's emotional-volitional and intellectual processes are just beginning to develop. nine0078 Children learn to control their desires, as a rule, only by the senior preschool age. Moreover, babies live here and now, they have no concept of time, and they can only imagine how something will happen later when they reach four years old ... What should parents do? Teaching children patience, especially since our experts say that the foundations of this quality are laid at an early age.

Between things

It is pointless to purposefully train a child's patience until the age of four. nine0078 Toddlers under this age are not able to establish a causal relationship between an action and a possible result. Indirectly, patience is formed in the crumbs when learning to use a cup, spoon, the ability to dress or go to the potty. Indeed, it is sometimes very difficult for a little man to cope with naughty fasteners or to correctly pick up a cutlery.

  • Give your child enough attention. In this case, already at the age of 1–1.5 years, he will be able to wait a few minutes until his mother finishes the work she is doing. “Don’t quit your activity as soon as the baby asks for your attention,” advises Alena Aleshina , development director of the training company EQuator, psychologist, expert in the development of emotional intelligence. “Make eye contact with him, pat him on the head, kindly explain why you need to wait a little, and after a few minutes, be sure to give him time!” Then he will gain experience: if you wait a little, you can get what you want.

  • Do not create artificial waiting situations for young children. From time to time, the child still faces the need to wait (for example, the mother did not have time to heat up the food in advance). These situations are enough to start a conversation with the baby about patience, to talk about what sometimes you have to endure, that it can be difficult. You can tell that other people may also have their own needs: “Now you need to wait a bit, because I need to make a salad for dad.” nine0003

  • Use the terms "minutes" and "hours" less. The child does not know time very well. Therefore, if you want to explain to him, “when, finally,” use “regime” moments (“It will be after you have dinner”, “Dad will return when you are already getting ready for bed”).

  • Teach your little one to focus on what he is doing. As practice shows, it is easiest to occupy a child's attention for at least ten minutes with the help of creative activities: modeling, drawing with finger paints, playing with sand and water. Hide-and-seek, silence and "who will sit longer without movement" are suitable for spending time together. nine0003

10 minutes - this is exactly how long children under 3 years old can do one type of activity. By the age of 6, this time gradually increases to 35 minutes.

Workout

  • To develop the skills of patience, exercises that are aimed at maintaining a certain body position for some time are suitable. These, for example, include the well-known “swallow” or “heron” poses, as well as some yoga asanas that can also be used for practicing with children: “downward-facing dog”, “frog”, “cobra”, “fish” and other. Practice physical minutes, gradually increasing the time the child is in one position or another. nine0003

  • You can also “think up” a competition for who can last the longest without making a single movement. The winner will get a small but tasty prize.

  • From the age of three, you can start developing your baby's focused attention. This valuable quality is the foundation for the formation of patience. For this, games “in between times” are suitable, which you can practice on the way to kindergarten or on a walk. Ask your child to mark objects of the same color that he meets on his way. Or let the baby clap her hands as soon as she sees a crow, and if she meets a dove, she stamps her foot. nine0003

  • Closer to four years old, you can make attention games more difficult. Offer the child the game "What has changed?". Arrange several small items on the table in a certain order (start with 5-6, gradually increasing their number to 15), give the baby 30 seconds to memorize their location on the table. Ask him to close his eyes, remove / add one item or swap them. Then ask him to tell you what has changed.

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Right on target

By the age of 5-6, most children can wait a bit and do something interesting and fun for 20-30 minutes. The only “but” is that they do not always have the patience to finish what they started. But this is precisely what is the basis of such strong-willed qualities of the baby as perseverance, perseverance, perseverance. During this period, it is very important for parents to maintain the child's interest in the chosen activity and encourage him to complete what he started. nine0003

  • Choose the right activities. Any kind of creativity perfectly develops patience. In this case, the child will be able not to wait for the result for a long time, but to evaluate it here and now.

  • Divide the child's laborious task into several stages. For example, if he can't sort out all the scattered toys at once, let him finish cleaning in the morning. Or, if you teach a child to pronounce a sound correctly, first teach him to hear it in words, then understand whether it is at the beginning or end of the word, and only then train the correct pronunciation of it. Be sure to support your child's success at every stage. nine0003

  • Support your child's efforts. This is best done with the help of stories about the kid's favorite heroes who did something and achieved success, although they did not succeed at once. Remember the story of Winnie the Pooh - he patiently planned "how to get to the honey on the tree" and as a result came up with using Piglet's balloon for this.

  • Explain why patience or effort is needed. For example, if at first you can’t fold the rings, then you need to practice a little, and then you get a beautiful pyramid. As soon as we reach the right place by plane, you will find yourself in a new interesting place. When the holiday comes, they will bring you a cake and gifts. The older the child, the more complex goals he will be able to realize. Then he can already talk about how impatience affects, for example, people's relationships: “When you interrupt your grandmother while she is talking, she gets upset. And if you can listen to her to the end, she will be very pleased. nine0003

  • Avoid praise for qualities and traits, but praise for specific things. Instead of "How smart you are!" say, “You’re already great at jigsaw puzzles,” or “What a beautiful picture you drew! He must have tried very hard!" “Praise of this kind forms a set for future growth: as adults, children who have been praised for diligence and patience put more effort into achieving what they want,” explains Alena Aleshina. “When faced with failure, they do not lose heart, but look for what else they need to learn in order to achieve a result.” When parents praise a child for his or her abilities (“You are so talented!”), the child grows up with a fixed mindset. If something does not work out for such a person, he writes it off as a lack of necessary qualities and loses motivation for further actions. Needless to say, children raised with a growth mindset become more patient, strong-willed, and, as a result, more successful? nine0003

Patience is the ability to set aside psychological rather than physical needs for some purpose. The desire to go to the toilet, hunger, thirst, the baby should not endure.

Training

  • It is still difficult for a child to imagine the ultimate goal of his work. To convince him to complete something to the end, invite him to do something according to your model. For example, you can make a collage in advance from improvised material: twigs, buttons, beads, pieces of thread and fabric. Stick all of the above on a piece of cardboard in random order and invite your child to repeat your masterpiece. Of course, let him bring something of his own to the picture. nine0003

  • The search for "treasure" perfectly trains patience! Especially if you hide something valuable for the child. You can "bury the treasure" in the room (this option is suitable for younger kids) or on the street. You can search for treasure according to a pre-drawn plan or by counting steps from any starting point (suitable for those guys who are already well versed in such concepts as right and left, forward and backward).

  • Any kind of experiment is great for practicing the concept of “wait and you will get results”. You can grow crystals, germinate seeds, watch the buds bloom on a twig you brought from the forest, or roots appear on the cuttings of a house plant. Think about how the child will record his observations: these can be drawings, a photo report, a table that you will fill out with him. nine0003

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Standby

Hard to endure! Nevertheless, adults are constantly trying to convince the child that this is a mere trifle. “Mom will come in the evening, it’s already very soon”, “Just think, wait a couple of days, what nonsense!”. Don't lie! Remember how you react to situations where patience is needed. Often we ourselves fuss in line at the store, while waiting for the bus, express dissatisfaction in a traffic jam . .. “In fact, we show a desire typical of a modern person - we want to get everything immediately! What kind of teaching the child's patience in this case can we talk about? — comments Polina Leonova , teacher-psychologist of the educational center "Aristotle". “He, like a mirror, will copy your behavior.”